When confronted with situations like this, people banter about meaninglesss words that while meant to be comforting, usually have the opposite effect. unfortunately, in most instances, words all are there are to share. a comforting shoulder to lean on, a warm heart to listen to a friend, and a place in our hearts to help a friend get through tribulations such as these. My friend, i grieve with you upon the loss of your father, and offer all these things to you, to assist you in this dark hour. thoughts and wishes of condolences whispered unspoken between friends.... youll be in our thoughts today as we move through this life seperated by only time and distance my brother. Our thoughts are with you,