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The
Margaret Street Church of Christ
Joliet IL
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The Christian
View of Death
Philippians
1:21-24
by Heath Rogers
Introduction:
"To
die is gain" - doesn't make sense to us.
Many people
look upon death as the end. Look in a casket and see a body whose
life will never come back, no matter how much you want it to.
The line has been crossed. It is the end, and we have a hard time
dealing with that.
And when
we are faced with the possibility of our own death, we are afraid.
We don't know what happens next. It is a mystery to all of us,
and we naturally fear the unknown. Many run from death.
But Paul welcomed it. He saw it as gain. How? The world sees death
as a tragedy. The only way death can be gain is if a person hated
their life so much that they wanted to die. Paul had a rough life,
but he wasn't looking to be put out of his misery.
The Bible
prepares us for death by showing us what death is all about. The
Bible tells us that we will die, what death really is, why we
die, and the attitude we should have towards our death.
If we fail to grasp the Bible's teaching on death we will be tossed
about by fear and doubt. But if we understand as Paul did, then
we will be able to see death as gain.
What is the proper Christian view of death?
I. Death
is Separation
1 Thess. 5:23 - the Bible says that man is a triune being. Consisting
of body, soul and spirit.
James 2:26 - physical death occurs when the spirit leaves the
body.
But physical death is not the end of our existence.
- Eccl. 12:7 - the body decays, but the spirit returns to God.
- Matt. 22:31-32 - Abraham, Isaac and Jacob continued to exist.
II. Death
is the Result of Sin
Why do people die? Sometimes God is blamed when a person has died.
We need to make sure we put the blame where it belongs.
Gen. 2:16-17 - when man sinned, death entered the world.
Rom. 5:12-14 - death spread to all men, even to those who don't
transgress in the likeness of Adam (innocent babies) all die.
Death is a common experience of the human race because we live
in a fallen world. Sin was let in, and death is one of the consequences
of sin.
III. Death
is a Time To Mourn
Eccl. 3:4 - there is a time to mourn.
There are numerous references to the mourning of loved ones, friends
and important people in the Bible.
Gen. 50:3 - all Egypt mourned the death of Jacob for 70 days.
Deut. 34:8 - Children of Israel mourned the death of Moses for
30 days.
Acts 8:2 - the church mourned the death of Stephen.
John 11:32-36 - Jesus mourned with the sisters of Lazarus. He
was so moved by their grief and sorrow that he shed tears with
them. Real men do cry.
Death is
a sad occasion. Shedding tears is natural. Not a time to bottle
up, deny reality, act like it didn't happen. Life goes on. Mourning
is a part of moving on.
IV. Death
is Sleep
John 11:11-14 - Jesus referred to the death of Lazarus as sleep.
Referring to death as sleep was common in classic Greek literature.
There are numerous references to death as sleep in the Old Testament.
It is a figure that Paul used in a comforting way in 1 Thessalonians
4:13-18.
Death is looked upon as sleep for a reason.
1. It is a peaceful
rest - Rev. 14:13. We have all been so tired that we would give
anything for a little sleep. That restful sleep awaits us at the
end of this hard life.
2. It is only
temporary. Death is not permanent. The dead will awaken during
the resurrection - Psalm 17:15.
V. Death
is a Departure
Luke 9:31 - Moses and Elijah spoke to Jesus about His death. This
was no surprise to Jesus. He knew He was going to die, and how
He was going to die.
The text says they spoke of "His decease" (lit. departure).
From the Greek word for Exodus - an exit, a way out. Jesus saw
His death simply as a departure.
Phil. 1:23 - This will help us to understand Paul's statement
about his own death being gain. He understood that death was not
the end of his existence, but simply a departure from this world
into a better one. John 14:1-3
Death is man's journey from this world into eternity. Like stepping
from one room into another - death is the door. The closing of
one chapter and the beginning of another.
How is death gain? It is the way we escape this land of sin and
sorrow, much like the children of Israel escaped Egyptian bondage.
VI. Death
is Going Home
John 14:28 - Jesus viewed His death as the way to return to the
Father.
Phil. 3:21 - our citizenship is in heaven. We are strangers and
pilgrims on this earth, our home is in heaven.
"Can't go home again." But we need that sense of belonging
somewhere.
Rev. 22:1-5 - everything comes full circle in heaven. Everything
that was lost because of sin is regained. We are again in the
presence of God and the Tree of Life. The very place we were created
to be.
Conclusion:
Paul was able to say what he did about death because of what he
said about his life - "For to me, to live is Christ."
The only way death can be gain for us is if we live for Christ.
Otherwise, death is the greatest loss we will even know.
If a person dies and goes to heaven, this world will be the only
hell they will ever know. But if a person dies and goes to hell,
this world will be the only heaven they will ever know.
It is important that we realize why Paul was able to say that
death was gain. If we live for Christ, then our death is gain.
If we don't, then we are among those who have no hope.
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Premarital
Sex
by
Heath Rogers
Introduction:
We
live in a sex charged society. Sex can be found everywhere with
little effort. TV commercials, magazines, billboard signs, music,
internet, etc. Teenagers are especially vulnerable to this. Much
of the media is focused at this age group.
Teens
are at a time in their life that their bodies have developed physically
and hormonally to become sexually active (but not emotionally!!).
Their curiosity is heightened by messages from popular culture
and from their peers.
As a result, many
teenagers are sexually active. 68% of teenagers (2/3) will have
sex before they leave High School.
Many teens see
sex as their right. It's their choice, their body, and as long
as they are not hurting anyone, they should be able to have sex.
Some have no shame about it. They don't mind their parents knowing.
Some parents will defend their teen's involvement - "Boys
will be boys" (double standard).
Our society doesn't
help matters. Teens are told that abstinence is just one of many
choices. They need to make responsible choices, get the right
information and protect themselves from the dangers.
The right information
about sex is going to come from the Bible. The right choice about
sex for teenagers will be based upon what the Bible says.
I. What
the Bible Says About Sex
Sex is not a dirty
word. We need to be careful not to imply that it is, that we are
not leading our teenagers to believe this. Need to be careful
how we talk about sex, how we present the subject to them.
1.
Sex was created by God - Genesis 1:26-27. God is the one who designed
our bodies, made them male and female. Instilled within us the
desire to have each other. It is a part of what He said was good
- Gen. 1:31.
2. Sex is a part
of God's plan to continue man's existence - Genesis 1:28. It is
through this relationship that a new life is conceived, a new
soul is brought into the world.
3. Sex was designed
for pleasure within marriage - Genesis 2:22-24. This is a part
of becoming "one flesh."
Proverbs 5:15-20
- marriage is the appropriate place to enjoy the pleasures of
sex. "Rejoice", "satisfy", "enraptured"
(intoxicated).
II. What
is Wrong With Premarital Sex?
1. It is Sin.
A. Galatians 5:19
- fornication, sexual immorality.
PORNEIA - "illicit sexual intercourse; adultery, fornication,
homosexuality, lesbianism, intercourse with animals, etc."
THAYER
Fornication is an umbrella term which includes any sexual activity
outside of, or prior to, marriage. Confined to marriage, sex is
holy and pure. Outside of marriage, sex is sinful.
B. 1 Cor. 6:9-10
- "Do you not know?" "Do not be deceived."
There is something about this sin which should naturally tell
us it is wrong. Those who give themselves over to fornication
will not inherit heaven.
2.
It is Unlike Any Other Sin
1 Cor. 6:15-18
- this is not an easy passage to understand, but the teaching
cannot be ignored.
Sex is an act
which joins two bodies into one (v. 16). To take your body and
join it to one that your body does not have a right to is a sin
against your body. Your body is not to be used that way.
We need to do
and be our best in respect to our physical bodies. We must handle
our bodies in a respectful way, and respect the bodies of others.
We must be impressed
with the fact that the Bible says this is a sin unlike any other.
For that reason, it is something we must flee from.
3.
Deprives Future Spouse
Hebrews 13:4 -
the honorable thing is to keep the marriage bed undefiled. We
are not to bring sexual relationships of the past to the marriage
bed. We are to be virgins when we marry.
Your virginity
is your wedding gift to your future spouse. To take your virginity
and give it to someone who you are not married to is to deprive
your future spouse of something that is rightfully theirs.
4.
Physical Consequences
Hebrews 11:25
- there is pleasure in sex, but outside of marriage it is only
a temporary pleasure.
Proverbs 5:3-14
- Solomon warns that the invitation to join a harlot is not a
great as it appears to be. It is a sin which seems sweet, but
becomes bitter and cuts like a two-edged sword.
A. STD's - 1 out
of every four sexually active teenagers will get an STD this year
(3 million per year). In the 1950's there were only five known
and treated STD's, today there are more than 50. Some STD's are
curable, others are not and those infected have to live with them
the rest of their lives. AIDS.
B. Teen Pregnancy
- 20% of all teenage girls having sex will get pregnant this year
(900,000). Teen who have babies are less likely to finish high
school or go to college, are more likely to live in poverty. Their
babies are more likely to have lower birth weights. And the cycle
is often repeated.
5.
Emotional Consequences
Teenagers are
not able to handle the emotional consequences of having sex.
A. Self-respect
- no longer have that special thing to offer future spouse. The
danger of a bad reputation.
B. Hurt others
who love you. Parents, family, church and the Lord.
C. Risk searing
your conscience against good principles. When the initial shame
wears off, there is nothing preventing you from doing it again.
D. Some teenage
girls believe that the way to keep their boyfriends is to give
in to the pressure to have sex with them. The following illustration
from king David's family shows that this is not true.
2 Samuel 13:1-18
- Amnon lusted after his stepsister. He plotted a way to have
her.
Tamar resisted as best she could by reasoning with him.
1. She pointed
out that this was a disgraceful thing, they shouldn't do it.
2. It would disgrace
the nation of Israel for the king's son to do this.
3. Both of them
would be shamed, he would be a fool.
4. She was willing
to marry him to avoid being violated by him.
After
he had her, his affection for Tamar immediately changed (v. 15).
His hatred for her was greater than his supposed love for her.
Things change after sex.
Amnon did not
protect Tamar's reputation, He had her put out publicly.
Anyone
asking you to give in and have sex is asking you to sacrifice
your virginity and open yourself to all of these physical and
emotional risks in order to fulfill their pleasure! Don't allow
yourself to be used in this way!
III. How
Can Today's Teenagers Maintain Their Sexual Purity?
1.
Acknowledge the Danger
1 Cor. 6:18 -
we are told to flee. Escape. There is a danger involved. Do not
underestimate the power of sexual desire. Many who thought they
could control it have given in. Don't play with fire.
2. Set Boundaries
1 Thess. 4:3-5
- the honorable way to handle your body is to know and set the
proper boundaries of behavior. You want to do your best, act in
an honorable way in relation to both your own body and the bodies
of others.
3. Pray
Pray that God
will give you the proper understanding of this issue. That you
will respect your body and the bodies of others. That you will
keep yourself from tempting situations. And when you find yourself
in a tempting situation, you will get out!
4. Dating Guidelines:
A. Don't date
too soon. Your parents will have a say in this. Their wishes must
be respected.
B. Date the right
person. Someone who will respect you and will not pressure you
to give in.
C. Date in groups,
not one-on-one.
D. Be modest in
your dress and behavior. Don't dress or act in a way that leads
your date on. Some clothing is designed to send sexual signals.
These are sent, whether you intend them or not. Fathers and mothers
need to pay attention to what their teenage children are wearing.
E. Don't put yourselves
in tempting situation - Romans 13:14.
Certain movies or TV shows, music, parked car, etc.
F. NEVER be at
home alone with boyfriend/girlfriend. Most teen pregnancies were
conceived in their own home between 3-5 PM.
G. Make yourself
accountable to someone. A good friend or your parents.
Conclusion:
Regardless of
what the world says about sex, teenage Christians are expected
to obey what God has said in His word.
Our teenagers
need to know what the Bible says about sex. More importantly,
they need to be encouraged to live according to what the Bible
says about sex. As parents, we need to have serious talks with
them, help them to form their own conviction to maintain sexual
purity, to draw boundaries and avoid and overcome the temptations.
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Abortion:
"expulsion of a fetus from the womb before it is sufficiently
developed to survive; a miscarriage."
When a pregnant
woman miscarries, her body has spontaneously aborted the unborn
baby. This is an unfortunate and heartbreaking ordeal. But, the
kind of abortion that I want to consider is the one caused by
a doctor.
Since the legalization
of abortion by Roe vs. Wade in 1973, there have been over 30 million
abortions in the US. One in every four pregnancies ends in an
abortion. This has caused more deaths than the casualties of all
the US wars combined.
Abortion is a
very sensitive issue. The Bible does not say, "Thou shalt
not have an abortion." But principles set forth in the Bible
about life and when life begins show us that abortion is clearly
wrong. As Christians, our views, motives and actions must be guided
by the Bible, not by emotions or by popular opinion.
I. The
Value of Human Life
A. Life
is a sacred and holy thing. Life belongs in God's domain.
Genesis 2:7 -
man does not have the power or ability to create life. That power
belongs to God alone. The original story of Frankenstein
was about a doctor who wanted to play God by creating life.
Life is not ours
to destroy. It is not within man to choose when life begins or
ends - not even his own.
B.
God's view on murder - Gen. 9:5-6; Ex. 20:13; Prov. 6:16-17
The result of
an abortion is the end of a life. If a child is left alone to
develop in a mother's womb, it will be born. Abortion interrupts
this process and kills a child.
Abortion is wrong
because of what the Bible says about the sacredness of life and
murder.
II. When
Life Begins
A great part of
the abortion debate is focused around the question of when life
begins.
Some say it is
when a baby breathes. Some say after six months of development.
The Bible teaches
what honest medical science supports - that life begins at conception.
Psalm 139:13-16
How
does the Bible refer to the unborn?
Genesis 25:22-24
- children
Matt. 1:18 - with
child
Luke 2:12, 1:41,
44 - babe
If
life begins at conception, then abortion is the termination of
a human life, not just a pregnancy.
III. Old
Testament Precedent
Exodus 21:22-25
- two men fighting, a pregnant woman is hit and this causes her
to give birth prematurely. If the baby survives the father
will impose a punishment. But if any harm is done to the mother
or baby, the same must be done to the man.
If the same rule
was in force today, you couldn't find a doctor who would do an
abortion.
IV. An
Abomination to God
Molech was
a god of the Ammorites - Leviticus 20:2-5.
We know it was sinful for the Israelites to worship other gods.
But what made this sin worse is the way they worshipped Molech.
Deut. 12:29-31 - they sacrificed their children to Molech by throwing
them into a fire. God says that this practice is an abomination,
something that He could not even imagine coming up with - Jeremiah
7:30-31.
Abomination - "abhor, loathe, detest; to turn oneself from
a stench."
Imagine a smell so bad that it turns your stomach and makes you
sick. This is what abortion does to God.
We become disgusted and upset when we hear of children being abused
and neglected. Babies shaken, left in parked car, deserted in
dumpsters.
Why don't we have the same indignation about the killing of the
unborn?
V. Without
Natural Affection
Romans 1:31 -
unloving, without natural affection, heartless. Comes from a word
meaning "without family love."
Mothers naturally
protect their young. Mother bear robbed of her cubs, cat will
fight animals much larger than herself for her kittens.
Is there any better
example of "without natural affection" than a mother
who would allow her unborn child to be murdered right in her own
body?
Abortion is the
height of selfishness. Pro Choice advocates are so adamant because
they see an unwanted pregnancy as a shackle. They think more
of themselves than the life they are blessed to bring into the
world.
VI. Facts About Abortion
The following
facts about abortion show it for the evil that it is.
1.
The mind numbing numbers.
- Over one and a
half million abortions done every year (1,600,000).
- 4,000 every day.
- One every 22 seconds.
2. Abortion
is legal any time during the pregnancy. As long as the baby
is still in the womb, the mother can choose to end the pregnancy
with an abortion.
3. Fathers
and Grandparents.
- A pregnant woman
can have an abortion without the consent of the baby's father.
- A pregnant teenager
can have an abortion without the knowledge or consent of her own
parents. 45% of minors obtaining abortions do so without parental
knowledge.
4. Painful
to the Baby.
Abortion is "sold"
as a quick and painless procedure. It is not painless to the unborn
baby who is being killed.
Different methods
are used. Some kill the baby with a burning saline solution, some
remove the baby piece by piece with a vacuum.
Partial birth
abortion - all but the head is removed. The skull is opened and
the brain is suctioned out - killing the baby. Then the baby
is fully removed from the mother.
5. Birth
Control.
- 95% of all abortions
are done for the purpose of birth control.
"What about
rape, incest and danger to the health of the mother?"
- no more than
7% are done for the mother's health.
- no more than
1% involve cases of rape or incest.
Approximately
1,470,000 abortions are performed each year for the purpose of
social, economical or personal reasons.
6. Child
Abuse.
Child abuse has
risen over 600% since 1973. Why? Abortion has destroyed the respect
for human life. Why would a person who would kill their unborn
child have any qualms about abusing the ones who were lucky enough
to get out of the womb?
7. Side
Effects to the Mother.
- 9% risk of sterility
- 14% risk of
spontaneous miscarriages in future pregnancies.
Post Abortion
Syndrome
- Relentless guilt
of realizing she has killed her unborn child.
- Anxiety
- Psychological
"numbing." Doesn't respond the life anymore.
- Depression and
thoughts of suicide.
- Anniversary
syndrome. Increased symptoms around the anniversary of
the actual abortion
or the expected due date of the baby.
- Re-experiencing
the abortion. Flashbacks will come during situations
that resemble
some aspects of the abortion. Sound of a vacuum
cleaner, a gynecological
examination. Nightmares about babies.
- Preoccupation
with becoming pregnant again. Replace aborted baby.
- Survival guilt.
Attempt to atone for selfish choice.
- Development
of eating disorders.
- Drug and alcohol
abuse.
Conclusion:
Abortion is having
a great impact upon our society. You can't kill as many people
as we have and not "reap" the consequences (Proverbs
14:34).
As Christians,
we must stand for the truth and influence as many people as we
can.
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HOW
CAN TEENAGE CHRISTIANS REMAIN
FAITHFUL UNTIL DEATH?
by
Heath Rogers
Introduction:
Eccl. 12:1
- the Bible admonishes us to obey God in our youth. It is exciting
to see young teenagers commit themselves to Christ. Doing so allows
them to form the right kind of habits early. And the Lord will receive
the efforts of their full life.
It is not
easy being a Christian. People can and do fall away. And teenagers
have their whole life before them. Herein lies the challenge: Now
that you have obeyed God in your youth, how can you remain faithful
until death?
I believe much of that depends on the choices that are made. The
teenage years are an exciting time of life, a time when many choices
are made that will have a great impact on their lives.
What are some things young Christians
can do to help them remain faithful until death?
I. Marry
A Strong Christian
Marriage is
the second most important decision you will make. It has large bearing
on your decision to serve God and go to heaven. The decision of
if/who you marry will have great impact on your life.
2 Cor. 6:14-16
- the Bible advises against marrying a non-Christian. Why? Nothing
in common spiritually. 1 Peter 3:7 - Christian husband and wife
are heirs together of the grace of life. An unbelieving or unfaithful
spouse can not provide that companionship and spiritual help that
is needed.
You will not
be able to share your spiritual convictions, struggles, hopes, victories
or blessings with the most important person in the world to you.
Unequally
yoked - two animals yoked together who do not belong teamed up with
each other. One will drag the other down. The unbeliever will drag
down the Christian.
"I love
them and I will win them to Christ." I hope so - if they don't
win you! 1 Kings 11:1-4
If
you decide you are only going to marry a Christian, then you have
limited yourself in who you are going to date and where you are
going to look for them. Need to be around other young Christians.
Christian
life is hard enough married to a Christian. We all need a little
help along the way. Marry a person who can help you go to heaven.
II. Choose
the Right Career
God wants
man to work. Man was placed in the garden to take care of it (Genesis
2:15; 2 Thess. 3:10).
What do you want to do? Important decision. This is the time of
life when you need to be thinking about that. What do you like to
do? What are you good at? Can you make a living doing it? What kind
of training will you need (college, tech, other)?
Another important
consideration - how will it affect your spiritual life?
Some jobs
have certain obligations, responsibilities and put you in contact
with people who will challenge you to compromise your faith and
convictions.
- Some careers
are sinful (alcohol, tobacco, gambling, etc).
- Some careers
place you in compromising positions (actor, entertainer, politician,
entertaining clients, etc). 2 Cor. 6:14
- Some careers
will keep you from assembling with the saints (pro athlete, retail
sales, etc)
- Some careers
will keep you away from family and local church for extended periods
of time (military, trucking, contract work, etc).
Whatever
it is that you choose to do, just ask, "Can I do this and still
serve God the way I should?" Jobs have pulled people away from
Christ.
III.
Get Involved in the Work of the Church
Early and
Often.
There is more
to church membership than just sitting on a pew and putting your
money in the plate. Church membership requires you to develop and
use your talents in the work. To get involved.
Teenagers
are not the next generation of the church. They shouldn't be told
to sit and wait their turn. They are a part of the current generation
of the church. They have talents and youthful enthusiasm that should
be used. They need to be encouraged to get involved in worship,
teaching Bible Classes, helping with the building and grounds, evangelistic
efforts, visiting, etc.
Becoming involved
early and often will do two things:
1. Give
you a sense of responsibility. Wherever you go from here you
will feel the need to be involved. You will be in the habit of serving
a local church. You will be a great asset to whatever church you
attend.
Romans 16:1-2
- many of today's teenagers are tomorrow's Phoebes in waiting.
2.
You will have experience. You will have both the skills and
experience and the energy of youth. Great combination.
Habits
are formed early, and are hard to break. One who is involved in
the work of the church is less likely to fall away. They are at
the heart of a congregation, not outside looking in.
IV.
Set Spiritual Goals
How do you
picture your life 10, 20, 30+ years from now? Where will you live,
car, job, married?, children?, etc?
How do you
picture your spiritual life 10, 20, 30+ years from now?
- Do you want
to be an elder/deacon (or wife)? There are qualifications that must
be met (1 Tim. 3, Titus 1). Decisions you make now will impact that
decision.
- Get in the
habit of daily Bible reading and study now.
- 2 Tim. 2:22
- Avoid the pitfalls of youth. Drugs, alcohol, sex. Exposure to
these things can cause you problems the rest of your life.
Focus
on heaven. But have other spiritual goals you can work toward.
Elder, deacon, Bible Class teacher, develop class material, develop
Christian Web Site, work with teenagers, song leader, good parent,
etc.
Anything
worth doing does not happen by accident. Becoming good spouse, parent,
elder, etc., doesn't just happen. Neither does going to heaven.
Set goals and work towards them.
Conclusion:
2 Tim. 4:7-8
- as Paul reached the end of his life, he summed up his efforts.
Although his life as a Christian was extremely hard, he had stayed
in the fight, finished the race and remained faithful through every
hardship.
It was only after a life of faithful service that he would receive
a crown of righteousness.
The Christian
walk is not easy. Remaining faithful to the end will not happen
by accident. Much depends on the choices we make. We can make things
harder on ourselves with the wrong choices - or easier with the
right ones.
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When
Friends Let You Down
Psalm 55
by Heath Rogers
Introduction:
Many
of David's psalms are meditations. David is thinking about who God
is and who he is in relationship to God. Also, many of the psalms
contain a cry for God to deliver David from his enemies. We know
that, like any godly leader, David was opposed in many different
areas of his life. Psalm 55 is similar to these, with one exception:
David is seeking deliverance from the hand of a treacherous friend
(vs. 12-14).
It
is impossible to give an exact date and occasion for the writing
of this psalm. Some suggest that it is later in David's life, perhaps
during the rebellion of his son Absalom. David speaks of living
in the city, enjoying fellowship in the house of God and escaping
to the wilderness. We can also see the treachery of Judas in betraying
the Lord Jesus.
Although
we may have trouble identifying the exact time of the writing of
this psalm, we have no trouble identifying with it. We
have all been mistreated and hurt by others. Strangers, enemies
and sometimes even family will turn on us at times. But that doesn't
compare to the pain of being hurt by a friend.
The
reason: we choose our friends. We open ourselves to them in trust.
We let our guard down and make ourselves vulnerable. We allow our
friends access into parts of our heart that no one else is allowed
in. When this is violated, it causes us pain that is unmatched.
Friends
are necessary. The Bible tells us that it is good to have friends:
Eccl. 4:9-12 Proverbs 17:17. But we must remember that our friends
are human. And there will be times when, either intentionally or
unintentionally, they will let us down. Any time we are hurt we
stand at a crossroads. What do we do? This psalm offers some suggestions.
I. Things
We Can't Do
1. We can't
run and hide - Psalm 55:6-8
David's
wish was a vain one. He faced trouble all his life.
2
Timothy 1:7 - God gives us the strength to face the challenges of
life. He will never allow us to face something stronger than we
can handle, thus He expects us to overcome them, not to run away
from them.
The
dove that Noah released couldn't find rest until it returned to
the ark. Same is true for us. If we never muster the strength to
face our trials we will always run from them.
Drug
and alcohol addicts, suicide - often are people who refuse to face
the problems of life.
2. We can't
allow ourselves to become bitter - Hebrews 12:15
Any
time we are sinned against or wronged in some way there is the temptation
to become bitter. If anger is not taken care of properly, it takes
root and become bitterness, ready to spring up and cause its trouble.
The
trouble caused by bitterness is that it seeks to share its pain
with everyone else around it. Rom. 3:14 - often expressed in our
words. There are some people that we try to avoid because we know
they are going to talk about things that happened a long time ago.
But
the real danger is that bitterness destroys the person it takes
root in. The Greek word for bitterness is PIKRIA. Reminds me of
"pickle." A pickle is a shriveled up and sour cucumber.
This is what bitterness does to people.
3. We can't
seek our own vengeance.
David
says some harsh things in this psalm concerning the fate he desires
for his enemies, but he never takes sword in hand to try to make
it happen. He leaves that to the Lord.
Rom.
12:17-21 - we are forbidden to seek our own vengeance. That belongs
to God. It also violates the Golden Rule.
People
who are set on vengeance are miserable people. What would you expect
from a person who's goal it is to destroy another person?!
II. Things
We Must Do
1. Go to
them and restore the friendship - Matthew 18:15
The
Lord has given us the remedy for restoring friendships - going to
them and talking about it. The sooner this happens, the less chance
there is for bitterness to set in.
When
we do this, try to remember:
A. Talk calmly - Prov. 15:1. You are trying to make it better,
not worse.
B. Try to understand their point of view. Is it possible
that they did this unintentionally?
C. Forgive and forget. If you work it out, and have "regained"
your friend, then you must forgive them and move on - never to bring
it up again. To do so will destroy this friendship and it will then
be your fault!
2. Go to
God in prayer - Psalm 55:16-19
David
may not be able to escape his trouble, but he knows where to go
to find strength. Phil. 4:6-7 - we are not to worry about things.
We go to God in prayer and let him know. We must allow His peace
to guard our heart and mind.
What
makes prayer work for David is that he knows that he is never alone.
He cries out to God because he knows that "God will hear"
(v. 19). Do we have the same faith?
Like
the song "What A Friend We Have In Jesus" says, prayer
is a solace, a place of refuge and rest offered to us - if we will
go there. How many Christians deprive themselves of the strength
and comfort that David found in prayer?
3. Cast our
burden on the Lord - Psalm 55:22-23
We have to
do something with it. We can talk to others, but we can't give it
to them. They can't do anything with it. It is best to give it to
God.
1 Peter
5:6-7 - God is big enough to take care of any problem we have. He
asks us to cast it upon Him.
Conclusion:
It is
unfortunate that things like this happen. Those who hurt us will
have to answer for it. But we also have to make a choice concerning
how we are going to handle it. Are we going to handle it the right
way or the wrong way? We will have to answer for how we react to
it!
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Church
Discipline
Acts 5:1-11
by Heath Rogers
Introduction:
A.
The devil was relentless in his efforts to destroy this infant
church. First he brings his attacks from outside the church through
the Jewish counsel. The apostles resist this pressure and continue
spreading the word. So next, the devil attempts to destroy the
church from within - the hypocrisy of two members, Ananias and
Sapphira.
This
is the first case of church discipline in the New Testament.
B.
Eph. 5:25-27 - Jesus died to cleanse the church, it is up to us
to keep her that way. Church discipline is the effort to keep the
church pure.
C.
When we mention church discipline, some immediately think about
marking and withdrawing. This is only a part of it, the last resort.
Discipline actually has to do with training - training disciples
to walk after Christ. It includes teaching, admonishing, warning,
correcting, and when that fails - withdrawing.
D.
Marking and withdrawing from unfaithful or disorderly members is
not a popular thing to do. It is neglected because no one wants
to do it. It is emotionally painful to confront an erring brother,
not knowing how he will react, how those close to him will react.
Unless it has happened, one can only imagine the pain it causes
when a family member is withdrawn from.
One
might ask the question, "Why go through with it? It is so hard,
and doesn't seem to work anyway. Why Do We Practice Church Discipline?
I. We Are
Commanded To - 2 Thess. 3:6
It is not an option. We are commanded to do it by the authority
of Christ.
A. Marking
and withdrawing is something the church is commanded to do collectively
- 1 Cor. 5:4-5.
B. It
is also something that we are to do as individuals: Gal. 6:1 Titus
3:9-11 James 5:19-20
If individual members will not cooperate, the collective action
is useless.
C. Some
protest by saying, "It doesn't work." If God's way will
not work, no way will work. The fact that it is commanded is all
the reason we need.
II. Keeps
the Church Pure - 1 Cor. 5:6-7
Where
there is no penalty for breaking the law, there is no respect for
the law or the lawgiver.
If members are allowed to sin without correction, the influence
of their disobedient, rebellious behavior will spread throughout
the church like leaven.
Romans
16:17-18 - those who threaten to disturb the church are to be identified
and avoided.
III. Sends
the Right Message
Some
may object that withdrawing fellowship defeats the purpose of the
church. We should be inviting people to come, not kicking them out.
Is this the message we want to send?
>No
one is kicked out of the church. Those who walk disorderly and refuse
to repent are bringing this action upon themselves.
A. Church
discipline is sending the right message to the church. It tells
the members that God's word and authority must be respected. Acts
5:11 - great fear came upon the church.
B. It also
sends the right message to the unbelieving world. The Lord's church
is not a place where anything goes. Acts 5:12-14 -what kind of people
are going to be attracted to a church where the members get away
with anything?
IV. Saves
the Erring Brother
God has a second law of pardon for the erring Christian. Withdraw
is the last resort effort to bring an erring brother to repentance.
1 Cor.
5:5 - That his spirit may be saved.
2 Thess.
3:14 - do not keep company with him, that he may be ashamed.
Something
has changed. Can't go on enjoying social interaction like nothing
has happened. The change is to affect them, make them ashamed.
This
is why it is important that every member cooperate. If not, the
effect of the discipline is not felt. No shame, no repentance.
How
is this done?
What
does "do not keep company" mean? 2 Thess. 3:14; 1 Cor.
5:9-13
"To
mix up together, to associate with, be intimate with one."
The
Greek term used to refer to mixing various ingredients in a prescription
and to different weeds growing up among grain. In the passive, it
refers to human intermingling.
Christians
are to disassociate themselves from brethren who are walking disorderly.
"Have
no interchange of hospitality which would imply brotherly recognition."
Christians are not to mix or associate with brethren who are in
open rebellion against the teachings of Christ. We are not to treat
them in a way that would encourage their disobedience to Christ.
Matthew
18:17 - the Jews had absolutely nothing to do with the heathens
and tax collectors. They were cut off from them socially.
V. Additional
Considerations
A. How is church
discipline to be carried out? With what kind of attitude?
Gal.
6:1 - a spirit of gentleness. A harsh, unrealistic approach will
drive them away, not bring them back.
2 Thess.
3:15 - don't treat them as an enemy, but admonish them as a beloved
brother.
1 Tim.
5:20-21 - without partiality.
B. What happens
when they repent?
2 Cor.
2:6-9 - forgive, comfort and reaffirm our love for them. They are
not second class citizens, no hoops to jump through, no waiting
period to test the genuineness of their repentance.
Conclusion:
Church
discipline, marking and withdrawing from rebellious and unfaithful
members, is not a pleasant thing to do. Many Christians and churches
minimize its importance, shy away from it or simply refuse to do
it.
Church
discipline is not about kicking people out of the church. It is
about maintaining the purity of the church, sending the right message
to members and unbelievers and bringing erring brethren to repentance
and the salvation of their souls.
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Restoring
the Attitudes of New Testament Christianity
by Heath Rogers
Introduction:
About 200 years
ago an effort was put forth by individuals in this country to
turn away from denominationalism and manmade creeds and turn to
the Bible; to restore New Testament Christianity. They believed
that it was possible to just be a Christian, a member of the church
we read of in the New Testament.
So they sought
to do Bible things in Bible ways, and to speak Bible things in
Bible ways. To speak where the Bible speaks, and be silent where
the Bible is silent.
That is what this
church is all about. We strive to follow the pattern for the church
and Christian living as set forth in the New Testament.
Hebrews 8:5 -
there is a pattern, a plan to follow.
1 Cor. 4:6 - we
are not to think beyond what is written.
When
we talk about restoring New Testament Christianity, we often focus
upon the pattern. But isn't there more to Christianity than just
knowing and following the correct pattern?
I want us to consider
some of the attitudes that were characteristic of New Testament
Christians. Are we really committed to restoring NT Christianity?
I. Zeal
Titus 2:11-14 -
Christians, those who have been redeemed, are to be zealous for
good works. zealous - "ardently devoted to a purpose, fervent,
enthusiastic."
The Christians in
the New Testament were fervent and enthusiastic about their faith
- Acts 2:42
Acts 5:42, 8:4 - the gospel spread because these Christians were
preaching it with zeal. These Christians did not sit around like
bumps on a log. They were excited about their work. Can we say the
same thing?
Rom. 10:1-3 - of
course zeal alone is not enough. Zeal without knowledge of God's
will is dangerous. Many in error are devoted to spreading that error,
and are very successful.
When was the last
time we were enthusiastic about being a Christian, devoted to the
work of the church? If we lack the same zeal and enthusiasm they
had, can we really say that we have restored New Testament Christianity?
II. Joy
Christians are to
be people of joy. Philippians 4:4 - we are to rejoice always, because
in the Lord we have much to rejoice about.
Christians in the
New Testament didn't mope and complain. And many of them were persecuted
for their faith. Paul wrote this from prison.
Christians
are to rejoice in the work of the gospel:
1. Receiving the
word - Acts 8:39, 16:34
2. When others receive
the word - Acts 11:18, 23
3. Even in persecution
- Acts 5:41, Matt. 5:10-12
They rejoiced because
their persecution was a sign that they were
doing what was right, and that God would reward them.
If
we don't have the joy that these Christians had, can we really say
that we have restored New Testament Christianity?
III. Boldness
Acts 4:13, 29-31
- the book of Acts is a book of courage in the face of incredible
opposition. The apostles were opposed by the Jewish counsel, James
was killed by Herod, Peter was imprisoned. Paul was persecuted all
across the Mediterranean world. But they never quit.
2 Tim. 1:16-18 -
put his life in danger to find Paul.
Rom. 16:3-4 - risked
their lives to help Paul in his work.
How
much opposition are we willing to face before we pack it in? We
don't know because many of us have never faced it. Are we willing
to take a stand for the truth, defend and promote it at all costs?
If we aren't, can we really say that we have restored New Testament
Christianity?
IV. Trust
Faith is belief
and trust. It is one thing to believe in God, but our faith is often
put to the test when we have to trust in God.
2 Cor. 1:8-10 -
Paul had to learn to trust in God. By the end of his life he could
say - 2 Tim. 1:12. Can we?
The Christians in
the New Testament didn't worry. They trusted in God to provide for
them, guide them and deliver them.
Christians today
are given to worry. Just have trouble "letting go and letting
God."
Despite what the
Lord says - Matt. 6:31-33.
Worry is a thief,
robbing us of our time, mental energy, sleep and health.
Instead, we are
to seek first God's kingdom, and His righteousness.
If we are not able
to trust in God to deliver us, can we really say that we have restored
New Testament Christianity?
V. Togetherness
The Christians in
the New Testament felt a sense of community. They spent time together.
Acts 2:44-47, 4:32, 12:12.
These Christians
weren't satisfied with meeting a few hours a week. They were together
often, sometimes on a daily basis. Not out of a sense of duty, but
because they wanted to. They shared something special in common.
They were of one heart and one soul.
One sign of a congregation's
strength is how much time they spend together outside of the assembly.
The church is not to sponsor these social events, but individual
Christians are to spend time together. That is after the New Testament
pattern.
If we are not spending
this time together, developing the relationships that will bind
us and sustain us as a congregation, can we really say that we have
restored New Testament Christianity?
Conclusion:
Restoration is an
honorable and scriptural goal. Are we sure we are devoted to restoring
New Testament Christianity? All of it? Attitude is just as important
as faith and practice.
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What is
Wrong With Dancing?
by Heath
Rogers
Introduction:
1
Peter 2:11-12 - Christians are pilgrims and strangers in the world.
Our conduct is to be honorable, we are to abstain from lustful things
that the rest of the world accepts and enjoys.
This
will cause us to be different in their eyes - 1 Peter 4:2-4. The
world sees it strange that we dont join them in these kinds
of activities, including dancing.
Seeing
what is wrong with dancing may be difficult for some. The Bible
does not say "Thou shalt not dance." For some, this fact
alone may authorize it. This is complicated by the fact that dancing
is sometimes mentioned in a positive light in the Bible.
We
must make sure we understand what kind of dancing was approved in
the Bible, and what kind wasnt!
1. Dances
of Religious Devotion.
Dancing that
was an expression of religious enthusiasm and praise to God.
Exodus 15:20
- Miriam led all the women in a dance to celebrate their deliverance
from Egypt.
2 Sam. 6:14
- King David danced before the ark as it was finally brought into
Jerusalem.
Matt. 11:16-17
- Jesus used the illustration if children dancing as they played
with each other.
This kind
of dancing was not like the popular dancing of our day. It was
done for the purpose of celebrating or innocent playing.
No mention
of people of the opposite sex dancing with each other, no sexual
overtones.
2. Dances
of Sinful Merrymaking.
Such dances
were suggestive and lewd.
Exodus 32:19-25
- the children of Israel danced in a shameful and unrestrained
way before the golden calf. Reverted to paganism.
Matt. 14:6-8
- If this dance followed the Roman custom of the time, it was
a very
lewd and sensual dance done in immodest attire.
Gal. 5:21
- revelries (carousing - NASV, orgies - NIV). Nocturnal and riotous
procession through the streets in honor of a pagan god.
These would
include drinking and dancing. Condemned as a work of
the flesh.
Todays
popular dancing certainly fits the second category, which is clearly
condemned in the Bible.
To find out
what is wrong with dancing we must get more specific than just
looking at where the Bible mentions dancing. There are some principles
set forth in the Bible that we need to take a close look at.
I. Dancing
is Lascivious
Gal. 5:19-21
- works of the flesh are condemned.
lewdness -
NKJ sensuality - NAS debauchery - NIV
Lasciviousness
is a word that we dont use often, but it applies to several
activities that are popular among todays teens and young
people.
W.E. Vine
"excess, absence of restraint, indecency"
Thayer - "unbridled
lust, excess, wanton acts or manners, as filthy words, indecent
bodily movements, unchaste handling of males and females"
"Sensuality"
is a good rendering of this Greek word in that it identifies it
as anything that produces lust or sensual thought. Since dancing
clearly fits this term, and it is clearly condemned as a work
of the flesh, Christians can not engage in it.
II. Dancing
Produces Sexual Desire
1 Thess. 4:3-5
- Christians are sanctified, set apart from those in the world.
We are not to seek to fulfill our lustful passion like those without
God. We are to control our body in a holy and honorable way. Specifically
mentioned, we are to avoid sexual immorality.
Several sources
acknowledge the fact that dancing arouses sexual desire:
A. Modern
Psychology:
In his book,
World History of the Dance, Curt Sach says, "The whole range
of modern dances are designed to express love making."
Dr. Leta S.
Hollingsworth, professor of education at Columbia University,
wrote in "The Psychology of the Adolescent" that dancing
"affords a partial satisfaction of the sex impulse which
(among the adolescents) cannot as yet achieve full and specific
expression."
B. Advertisers:
Cellular
commercial in which a teenage girl, immodestly dressed, wants
to go out. She is dancing with a teenage boy. After Jamie Lee
Curtis makes the pitch, the teens are making out in a car. They
understand where teenage dancing is intended to lead to.
C. Boys:
Some girls
may not understand this, but teenage boys certainly do. There
are some things that show that guys connect dancing with sex.
1. Heterosexual
girls will dance with each other, without thinking anything about
it. Heterosexual guys will not.
2. Guys do
not want their girlfriends dancing with other guys. They know
what the other guy is thinking.
Romans 13:14
- why would we dance if we know that it will arouse lustful desire?
We wouldnt willingly expose ourselves to something that
would harm us physically (something we are allergic to). Why would
we do the same spiritually?
III. Dancing
is Associated With Other Sins
Dancing is
often accompanied by drinking and drug use. Openly in clubs, but
even secretly in high school dances.
Extra security
used on prom night. Police checked the cars. Statistics show that
in many places alcohol related accidents are increased on prom
nights.
Hotel reservations
are made for after the prom.
Dances, even
school sponsored dances, are looked upon as opportunities to engage
in and to enjoy different kinds of sins.
IV. Dancing
is a Stumbling Block
One might
say, "Dancing doesnt affect me. It doesnt cause
me to have lustful thoughts or desires."
1. Anyone
saying this hasnt been dancing, hasnt had lustful
thoughts or desires or simply is not being honest.
2. What affect
does it have on the person you are dancing with? If you have causes
them to have sexual thoughts or desires you have sinned against
them and have become a stumbling block.
What if another
young Christian, who believes dancing is wrong, learns that you
go to dances? Lets say they give in and go to a dance but
are not able to handle their sexual desires and give in to the
temptation. They have sinned, but you have played a part in it.
V. Dancing
Harms Our Influence
Matt. 5:16
Phil. 2:15
We must strive
to set a good example. People in the world are watching us. What
kind of influence for good would we have if we involved ourselves
in something like dancing? How are we going to effectively talk
to others about the necessity to repent and obey God if we are
mimicking a sex act on a dance floor, or worse, succumb to the
temptation and engage in sexual intercourse?
The world
is watching, and they are quick to notice any inconsistency between
our profession of faith and our conduct.
What if you
learned that an opportunity you had to influence a lost soul to
come to Christ was ruined by your involvement in something like
dancing?
Conclusion:
Sometimes
I wish the Bible would be more plain on subjects like this, that
we could find a "thou shalt not" for everything that
is wrong. But the Bible is plain enough for those who are sincere
seekers for the truth and are committed to obeying God.
Please consider
this, in the place of prohibitory laws, God has given us principles
to govern ourselves by. These principles require us to stop and
think about our words, actions, motive and attitudes. This causes
our religion to be more than cold, heartless law keeping. It involves
our heart and mind, which draws us closer to God.
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