Carol 11/2/ 814a Okay, how about if we imagine that we all are sitting around a room
together sipping tea. We are chatting away. The topic of discussion
turns to grandmothers. Now we all share a story about our grandmother.
I'll go first:
My grandmother had several large flower gardens in her yard. They were
her pride and joy. One day she noticed that some varmit was eating her
bulbs. She set a trap with poisin to kill whatever was destroying her
garden. When she found a varmit in the trap, she wanted to make sure
that was the one that was eating her bulbs. So my dear, sweet
grandmother cut this varmit's belly open to inspect the contents. She
found trances of her bulbs, and was satisfied that her garden was safe.
This story had been told over and over in the family. Many years
passed. My grandparents were at our house for the holidays. My mother
knew that they both loved those orange slice candies, so she had some
sitting out in a candy dish.
My grandfather had eaten several. But Grandma wanted to save her share
until after her afternoon nap. So she layed her candies on a napkin on
top of the chest of drawers in the bedroom before she and Grandpa took a
nap.
Grandpa had gotten up from his nap before Grandma, and was in the living
room with the rest of us when Grandma entered the room. She was very
upset. She looked at Grandpa and said gruffly, "Pop, did you eat my
orange slices that I laid on the chest of drawers?!!"
He laughed and said, "Now Mom, you know that I wouldn't eat your candy."
She said, "You were the only one in the room after I laid them there.
Are you sure that you didn't eat them? Tell me the truth !!!"
My mother was cracking up laughing. She knew how my grandmother
treasured her special candy since they didn't have candy at their house.
They had lived through the depression and didn't waste money on things
like candy.
My mother said to my grandfather, "Pop, you'd better fess up if you ate
those candies. Remember what happened to that varmit that ate her
flower bulbs?!!"
Shirley 11/28 112a
What a cute story. I bet we all have some stories we could tell of our
grandparents or other older relatives?? I was raised by my
grandparents. My grandma was very frugal also. I think the depression
had a lot to do with that. She could whip up good meals from next to
nothing. During the 2nd world war when there was such a shortage of
sugar ect she managed to change receipes --use honey --make do &
produce goodies anyway.
At one time she & Grandpa owned a grocery store (when my Dad was
small)--I have heard the story many times of how they would roll up the
money when they closed for the day--& hide it in her big bun of hair !
Sammy 11/28 1132a
I have many beautiful memories of my grandmother, She was a small woman,
about 5 feet and maybe 1 inch tall. Long red hair, She would sit in her
rocking chair and take the pins out and it would puddle on the floor. I
loved to brush it for her.I don't know how she ever managed to do all
the work she did. I've seen her get up at 4:00 in the morning and take a
fishing pole and her 22 and set off for the woods and her fishing hole
as she called it. Within 2 hours she'd be back with several fish and a
couple of rabbits or squirrels for the day. Then when they were cleaned
and ready to be cooked, she would put them on ice and go out to milk the
cow. When that was done she would make breakfast and then wake grandpa
and uncle Bill. After brakfast she and I woud gathe eggs and feed the
chickens. then she did her housework while Grandpa and uncle Bill did
field work. There was always something to do.
Fay 11/28 1102a
I didn't know one grandparent, They all died before I was born. I wonder
what stories my grands and greats will tell about me. Believe me, there
are many. I have been close to all of them.
Carol 11/28 1238p
How funny about hiding the money in her hair!!! People who lived
through the depression seemed to always be careful with their money.
When my grandfather passed away, my grandmother had plenty of money.
But she still had a hard time spending money on anything that wasn't
necessary. I remember taking her to do her weekly grocery shopping one
time. She absolutely love cashew nuts. She stood in front of the
display at the store for a very long time. She'd put a can of cashews
into her shopping cart, then put it back on the shelf. She did that
several times. Finally I told her that I wanted to buy those cashews
for her as a gift. You should have seen the look on her face. She
seemed so happy not to have to struggle with wanting to buy them but
thinking it was frivolous. Bless her sweet heart.
Kath 11/28 125p
I can really relate to your story about the cashews and the depression,
because that was the "era" I grew up in..and it is difficult for some of
us to part with even spare change, because of our teachings and
experiences..To-day young-uns have never had to do this sort of
monitoring,
and i hope they never do.
Perhaps that is one reason most seniors are considered stubborn, and
cranky, to-day,?? When our independence is threatened ( we think ),we
panic..
because we've been there..and know the struggle..
Living is very complicated at 81yrs. sometimes, and without a sense of
humor, you're lost...( grin )
Carol 11/28 1251p
Ah Kath, what nice memories. Thanks for sharing them. Reminded me of
the attic at my grandmother's house. It was a large room with no
partitions like you described. It had several double beds up there.
Often several of Grandma's kids, their spouses, and us grandkids would
spend the night on the weekend. The grown ups would sleep in the beds
in the attic. I would hear them talking and laughing well into the
night. All of us kids slept on the floor in the living room. AND... we
all had to go outside to the outhouse to go to the bathroom. Hahaha.
Carol 11/28 158p
Yep, a sense of humor is a must at our age. Hahaha. This thread got me
to thinking about us little ones taking baths at Grandma's house when we
spent the weekend. There was no running hot water and no bathroom. So
the women woud fill up a big galvanized tub with cold water from the
hand pump mixed with boiling water from the stove. The tub was placed
by the wood burning stove in the kitchen. Then we each in turn would be
given a bath in that tub. Pity the poor kid who had the last turn in
that tub of water. Hahahaha.
Kath 11/28 1247p
Cute story, and i can relate to family stories well, as i have many to
choose from Haha..
Grandma had a huge garden too, and her herb garden was a FORBIDDEN place
to roam and pick without her supervision..
Haha, my cousin Marion ( yr. younger )
had a passion for onions, and would raid the chive bed.. She was such a
cute little red-head, perky and adorable,
Grandma was herding all the little ones to get ready for church, and she
missed Marion.
My Uncle found her and dragged her in laughing his head off till he
cried.....
She was in the garden pulling up chives, and eating them dirt and all..
What a "smelly sevice" that was Haha ..and we never had a get-together
in later years that it wasn't mentioned by someone..
Kath 11/28 1214p
didn't know my Dad's Mom as she passed when I was a toddler, but grew
up with my maternal "Grands", very close..and what a blessing for us
they were too. Strict at times but so caring, and fun to be around..
They had a neat cottage on a corner that had a small park next to
it...In summer the neighborhood would "Lawn Bowl" there, in winter the
city (fire dept.) would flood it, for an "ice rink"...spent many a day
and nite in that tiny park..(by to-day's standards it is a mini park,
but THEN it was a HUGE space..
The side porch was screened in, and we would change to skates there, and
leave our boots, About 15 Grands so lots of boots..
The attic was only partily finished, but warm and cozy, No permanent
partition,
just a curtain hung down the middle...Girls side and Boys sde..Had army
cots, and feather comforters, ( no heat )..but we were cozy..."Things"
didn't matter, we had each other..
Managed with one bathroom...??? How did they do it ???
Wood stoves, no fridge, just a huge ice box..and a large pantry, and
the cookie jar was ALWAYS full...
Dining area would seat 15 easily, and don't dare to take a bit till
Blessing was said and Grandma, was seated, or you were "konked " on the
head with Grandpa's yard stick kept by his chair..
Love, laughter, and hugs, everywhere, and a silent an most precious GIFT
that you realized later in life "RESPECT"
I had a very simple but Happy childhood,
and many wonderful memories.. I choose to remember only the good ones,
cause they mean the most to me now...
Carol 11/28 1245p
My daughter and I were just talking the other day about how hard people
used to work to do what we now consider a simple task.
I used to spend a week with my other grandmother every summer. Like
your grandmother, she worked so hard even to prepare a meal. She'd kill
a chicken to fry, milk the cow for butter and milk, pick vegetables from
the garden and fruit from the orchard to use. Then came the job of
preparing that food so that it could even be cooked. It's just hard to
imagine how they got everything done.
Lee 11/28 615p
What a wonderful thread this has turned out to be. I have so many fond
memories of both grandmas esp my daddy's mom. My mother's mom died when
I was about 6 or 7.
My Grandma Watson was a jewel of a grandma. I spent many a Saturday
night or Sunday afternoon with her.
She was a joy to be with.
Her neighbor had bought a new dress and came down to grandma's to model
it for us. She twirled and twirled to show off her pretty new dress. She
said "Lea how to you like my new dress?" My grandma replied without any
expression on her face "Your slip is showing" and went on about her
business. She never did say if she liked the dress or not.
I could talk for hours about Grandma.
Barbara N 11/30 708a
My Dad's Mother, died before I was born and the only thing I remember
about my Mother's Mother,was seeing her in her casket and watching my
Mother cry.My sister told me many stories about our grandmother.
Hilda 11/30 1104a
Oh, I love this thread. It brings back so many memories. I remember those
old galvanized tubs and all taking a bath in the same tub. And also the
big attic where my grandparents lived at one time. They moved a lot.
(grin) They lived in this big old house that had a fireplace that went
between the living room and the bedroom, open on both sides. There would
always be a big fire in it and then Grandma had a feather bed in the
bedroom where I slept when I spent the night with them. I would just bury
up in that old feather bed and then have a couple of her home made
quilts piled on top of me. Would stay so warm and cozy and watch that
fire in the fireplace. Then there was some stairs in the kitchen that led
up to a big attic. We kids used to love to play there. And then of course
the old outhouse. LOL
I never knew my Daddy's mother. She died when he was young. But I loved
his Daddy, we all called him Granddaddy. He was the sweetest man I've
ever known. But I didn't like his wife, my step grandma. She was the
meanest woman I have ever know. LOL I think she was a witch that hated
children. LOL
I am really enjoying this thread.
Shirley 11/30 256p
I REMEMBER A LOT ABOUT MY GRANDPARENTS.ALL BUT MY FRATERNAL GRANDPA DIED
BY THE TIME I WAS 10 THOUGH.GRANDPA LANG LIVED UNTIL I WAS 21 AND SAW
HIS GREAT GRANDSON DAVID BORN AND BOUGHT HIM AN EXSPENSIVE BABY
BUGGY.HERE I AM 70 AND HAVE 3 GREAT GRANDS AND AM GOING STRONG.AT THE
TIME OF THEIR DEATHS ALL OF MY GRANDS WERE QUIET WELL OFF BUT HAD THEIR
OLD FASHIONED LIFE STYLES.ALL OF MINE LIVED ITTOWN AND HAD INSIDE
BATHROOMS,ELECTRICITY AND PHONES AND GRANDPA LANG WAS THE FIRST IN OUR
FAMILT TO OWN A TELEVISION.HOWEVER,MY GRANDMOTHER'S COOKED AND BAKED
EVERYTHING FROM SCRATCH.NO MIXES.THEY KILLED CHICKENS TOO THAT THY
BOUGHT FROM FARMERS AND ALSO BOUGHT FRESH EGGS FROM FOLKS WITH
CHICKENS.ALSO THEY CANNED VEGTABLES AND FRUITS AND GUESS WHAT? I WAS OLD
ENOUGH TO PEEL VEGTABLES AND PEACHES AND GOT TO STRING AND BREAK GREEN
BEANS.ALSO THEY PAID CASH FOR EVERYTHING EVEN CARS.THEY BOUGHT NOTHING
ON CREDIT.
Darlene 12/6 808a
My Mother's Mom lived far away, so I didn't get to see her much.
But I lived with my Dad and his Mother after my Mother passed away when
I was 9 days old. One of the things I remember about her was her soft
skin. She never used fancy soaps or creams. She just washed her face
with plain soap and water. I can remember seeing her suds up her
hands (no wash cloth) wash her face, rinse and go about her day. She
always wore a bonnet when she went out side, ALWAYS!, and a hat when she
went to town, church, etc. Long sleeved shirt waist dresses and her
apron. She didn't own anything short sleeved and was never without that
apron unless she was going somewhere. I am sure keeping covered up from
the sun was what kept her skin so soft.
She always had a big garden, canned everything, no big freezers in those
days. I can remember shelling black eyed peas by the wash tubs full. I
love to shell peas to this day! She raised chickens by the hundreds, and
butchered them and put them in a locker. We butchered all of our own
meat. Pork and beef. It was also kept in a locker. Pretty much were self-
sufficent.
She was very old fashioned! A slang word was considered to be a swear
word, there were no card playing around her! It was a sin to play cards.
There were no pants in our wardrobes. :-).
But the world was a better place then. You could trust people and be
safe almost everywhere. She passed away in 1962.
I have 2 bonnets she made for me way back when. Yes she made me wear
bonnets! I hated them!! I think that is why I don't like hats today. I
am going to get a couple of wig stands and put the bonnets on them.
Otherwise no one will ever see them.
I never knew either of my Grandfathers. They both passed away before I
was born.
Well guess I have rambled on enough!
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