Lee 6/5 643a Oh how I wish I had all of you here with me in person. I would hug all of you for your kind words, prayers, and support. Last Saturday I asked the doctor if they were doing anything for Bill to help him get better. He had nothing else to offer. I told him I wanted to take him home. He asked to come home every day for the last two weeks. He missed his cat Tater and wanted to see him so much. We arranged for hospice to look after him at home. We left Little Rock around 8:30 that night and I followed the ambulance home. We got to the beginning of our street, just 3 houses away from our house when he passed. He died just a little after 11:00pm. His cat will not come in the house. He sticks his head in the door, sniffs around and backs out of the door. He knows Bill is not here. Thank you all for everything from the bottom of my heart and thank you Darlene for all you have done. I love you all so much. Carol 6/5 1039a Lee, I'm so sorry. Please know that we are here for you when you want to talk. Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time. Glo 6/5 143p Lee, you are in our hearts, thoughts and prayers. I wish we could all give you a hug, too. We love you and are here if you need to talk to any of us. Wayne 6/5 145p Oh Lee I am so sorry he did not make it home before he passed. I was doing okay until you mentioned Tater. A cat's grief is a terrible thing because they cannot tell. I am glad that Bill is no longer in pain but still wish he was home with you. † Shirley 6/5 634p GOD BLESS YOUR HEART LEE.I'M SO SORRY FOR YOU THE FAMILY AND TATOR. Dorie 6/5 1007p Lee, my heart just aches for you, you have been through so much.may God be with you and help you get on with your life. I am so sorry that Bill did not make it home to see his cat and to be with you. We all love you and wish we could be with you and give you a big hug....write me whenever you want, I would love to know how you are getting along. Shirley (Craft Loving Granny) 6/5 1148p So sad for you Lee Its odd how animals sense things. Many people say an animal can not feel grief --I do not believe that is true. Again my prayers remain with you Sarah 6/7 231a Oh Lee, I feel so bad for you. I know you will be OK; you are a strong person. My thoughts and prayers are with you. Remember, the pain will lessen as time goes by. I teared up when I read about the cat. It reminded me of Maia's reaction when Don passed. When Don was bedridden, Maia would lay at the foot of his bed. Sometimes, I'd take her into his bedroom and hold her down; she would kiss his hand. On the night he died, I took her in and held her down to kiss his hand and she pulled back. But, I do think she see his spirit at times. Watch Tater and see if you think she acts strangely at times, like she notices him. God Bless you and help you through the days ahead. Lee 6/7 931p How I wish that you all could have been there, esp the service at the National Cemetery with full military honors. I was doing just fine until the 21 gun salute and taps being played. I will miss him so much. Tonight will be my first by myself. Tater let me carry him into the house yesterday. He went straight to Bill's room and laid under the bed for a while and then in the doorway. He cried such a mournful meow several times and went back out side. I brought him in again tonight and he ate some and went to the bedroom again. He cried some more, such a sad mournful cry. Then he came in there where I am and just talked and meouwed for a while and then out side he went. He is in mourning and it is so sad, even his eyes look sad and without their usual sparkle. I am so tired, I wish I could sleep for a week. Maybe I will get tosleep in tomorrow. I sleep but don't stay asleep for long. I love all of you so much and thanks for letting me talk tonight about Tater. Oh yes at the service in the chapel today, the minister mentioned Tater as a survivor. He said he had never preached at funeral where he felt it was necessary to include a cat. He just wanted everyone to know about the special bond the two of them had and how much Bill fought for breath to stay alive to get home.( I knew that when I got to take him home that there was a strong chance that he would not make it. But we had to try) The family and the minster talked last night about the relationship Bill had with his Tater. I put a pic of Tater inside Bill's suit next to his heart so that he will always have him near. Lee, thanks so much for writing and it always brings the tears to my eyes when I think of what all you have been through...I know everyone here has said many prayers for both you and Bill and will continue to do so..Take care and try to get rested up.God Bless... Kath 6/7 1040p My dear Lee, thank you for sharing to-day with us all, and we were there with you my friend, in our hearts. and we're here for you always... Difficult as it seems right now, and for Tator too, you have lots of good memories to help heal your sorrow my friend. Take care of Lee please and get some rest when you can. Blessings to you dear friend.. Sarah 6/8 1255a Dear Lee, I will include Tater in my prayers for you. After all, God takes care of all His creatures. I firmly believe that our animal will also join us on the "Other Side". Also, talk to Tater and tell him about Bill. They understand more than we think. Now, you can get some much needed rest. Love and Blessings Martha 6/9 225a Lee, I know today has been such a hard day for you. Thank you for telling us about Tator. We have a cat too and she just seems like a child to me. I love her so much. Honey, do try to get as much rest as you can for awhile. God bless you. We are praying for you. Love you so much. † Shirley 6/8 958a IT MAKES ME SAD ALL OVER AGAIN TO READ ABOUT TATOR'S GRIEVING.I AM GLAD HE ATE A LITTLE AND LET YOU BRING HIM IN FOR A WHILE.I HOPE YOU CAN GET SOME GOOD REST TOO.IT IS NOT EASY BUT GOD WILL HELP YOU.IT TOOK ME ABOUT A YEAR TO GET TO BE TOTALLY NORMAL FEELING AGAIN AFTER MY HB DIED.IF I HADN'T COMMITED MY LIFE TO CHRIST ABOUT 6 MONTHS AFTER HE DIED I DON'T KNOW WHAT WOULD HAVE HAPPENED.IT IS NEVER EASY.I GAVE SPECIAL THINGS OF HIS TO MY CHILDREN AND SENT ALL THE REST TO THE SALVATION ARMY.HE WAS VERY PARTICULAR AND HAD SUCH NICE SUITS.HE EVEN HAD ME PRESS HIS JEANS,HE WAS AN OLD ARMY MAN TOO AND ALSO HAD A MILITARY FUNERAL.TAPS ALWAYS MAKES ME CRY.ANY TIME YOU FEEL LIKE IT EMAIL ME.((((HUGS)))) Carol 6/8 1041a Sure hope that you got a good night's sleep last night Lee and were able to sleep in this morning. I'm hoping that the memories to the happy times that you and Bill shared will help you during this difficult time. Maybe when you are feeling stronger, you will share some of those memories with us. So sad about Tater. I love that you put his picture inside Bill's suit.
Wayne 6/8 549p My heart is breaking for you and for Tater. I know you will survive this and will miss Bill. This is a great group for support. So many here are widows BarbaraN 6/9 1139a Oh Lee, I am so sorry. We have been married 55 years and I would not have a clue how to cope with the death of my husband. I would think leaving the house and being with family and friends. My heart goes out to you. Is there any one who could spent the night with you for awhile? Darlene 6/8 1051p Lee I hope you are getting rested up. I am so sorry about Tater's grief. I had a lot of trouble with Dale's cat (Callie) after he died. The big thing was she started potting in the floor. Thank goodness for Nature's Miracle! She was always with Dale, even before he got sick. She sat in his lap any time he was sitting, slept between his legs at night. After he became a invalid she was his constant companion. When my step mother died their little dog actually cried tears. Animals are so much smarter than we give them credit for and they do have emotions. Lee's Bill is gone Darlene 6/4 1208a She called me just a few minutes ago to say that Bill had passed away yesterday. She was bringing him home. They were almost there. So dear friends she needs our love and prayers. Sarah 6/4 311a I am so sorry for Lee. Bill sure had put up a good fight, though. I remember he was ill when Don was losing his battle with cancer. Lee, you and your family are in my prayers. I know God will sustain you through the days ahead. Blessings, Kath 6/4 417a Thank you for letting us know, I am so sorry to hear this. Loosing a loved one is never easy and no words are ever adequate. GJ 6/4 1235a l am so sorry to hear this. Bless your heart Lee. Please know that I am praying for you and the family. Bee 6/4 223a Thank you Darlene. This is such sad news. Lee and family have my prayers. Vel 6/4 1232p LEE I AM THINKING OF YOU AT THIS TIME. PRAYING FOR YOU AND FAMILY TO HAVE STRENGTH TO GET THRU THIS. REMEMBER BILL IS FREE OF PAIN NOW. MANY GOOD THOUGHTS FOR YOU NOW. † Shirley 6/4 205p I AM SO SORRY FOR LEE.I HAVE TEARS IN MY EYES AS I TYPE. I KNOW WHAT SHE'S GOING THROUGH AS I WENT THROUGH IT 24 YEARS AGO. I DID SEE MY HB MAKE IT HOME THOUGH. I CARED FOR HIM 10 DAYS BEFORE HE DIED.HE HAD CANCER.IT STARTED IN HIS LUNGS. MARY 6/4 323p SO SORRY FOR LEE AND FAMILY. OUR THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS ARE WITH THEM. BILL IS AT A BETTER PLACE WITH NO MORE PAIN. Mary Lynn Lee 6/4 359p Thank you Darlene. I am so sorry. Lee and the rest of the family will be in our prayers. (((Hugs))) Mary Jane 6/4 514p I am so very sad and sorry, to hear this. Bill had endured so much pain and illness. He, lee and their loved ones have had a rough time. Only God knows why we humans have to endure what we do and only God can get us through anything. May God comfort Lee and her family(s). I feel so terrible for the ones left behind, with sadness and pain to go through. My prayers & thoughts are definitely with Lee. To Lee, we all love you and are crying with you. Fay 6/4 530p I AM SO SORRY. IT IS A TERRIBLE THING TO LOSE A HUSBAND. I KNOW. Glo 6/4 801p Lee and her family will be in my prayers. Thank you for letting us know, Darlene. Doris 6/4 829p Sorry to hear this sad news. My prayers go out to Lee and her family. Sammy 6/4 852p Please let Lee know that she and her family are in my prayers. Bill fought a good fight. I guess God decided it was time for him to rest. Hilda 6/4 853p Oh my I sure hate to hear that. She and the family will be in my prayers. I'm so sad for her. Wish he could have gotten to come home. When you hear from her again tell her she is my thoughts and prayers. And BIG HUGS to her. Kizzie 6/4 922p My heart is so sad for Lee. She and her family will be in my prayers. Dorie 6/4 947p Lee, my heart just aches for you, bless your heart you and Bill have had such a rough time. Please know you will be in John and my prayers. May God give you the strength to get through all of this. Shirley Jean 6/4 1018p Oh I am so very sad to hear that news. On his way home --they must have thought he was feeling better. What a shock for Lee to lose him on the way back home. I will keep her in Prayer --I know very well that feeling of loss. I am sure all the Grannies will rally round & some of you seem to know Lee very well. Friends are a lot of help when a death occurs. Martha C 6/4 1117p Lee, I am so sorry to hear about this. Bless your heart honey. I pray that God will be with you and your family during this trying time. God bless all of you. I will be praying for you. Martha P 6/5 113a Sorry to hear this, I will keep Lee and her family in my thoughts and prayers. Eileen 6/5 603a "May he rest in peace." Condolences to you Lee, and to the family. Darlene 6/5 649a I don't think that Bill was feeling much better when they tried to bring him home, but he had begged so to go home. If I understood Lee right they were going to bring him home and get hospice or home health care. But he just wasn't strong enough. Lee said he was so happy to know he was going home. When Dale was so sick and had to be in the hospital he begged constantly to come home. It was a fight to get him to the hospital when he needed to be there badly. So I know what Lee was going through. There is just no place like home as the saying goes. Especially when you are sick. I plan on trying to call Lee today. I don't know when Bill's funeral was to be.
Carol 6/5 1033a Oh, I'm so very sorry to hear that. My heart aches for Lee. I pray for strength and comfort for her and all who loved Bill. Wayne 6/5 135p So sad to hear this. She has our prayers to help her through this time. BarbaraN 6/7 1122a VERY SORRY TO HEAR THAT. PRAYERS ARE BEING SAID FOR BOTH. Carol Lavern Taylor 6/7 201p SO SORRY TO HEAR THAT TOO. WE ALWAYS HATE TO LOSE OUR LOVED ONES , AS OUR LIVES ARE NEVER THE SAME.PRAYERS FOR LEE AND FAMILY. Jo Ann 6/7 923p Lee...prayers to you and family at this sad time. |
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