Murdock Muse
Mar-Apr 2009, Part 2








TEXAS VACATION
Margery Aukstikalnis

Our little vacation started January 12, when we took the RV downtown and stocked up with propane, Diesel and groceries for two weeks. We spent the rest of the week letting Emily nap in the RV from noon to supper to pre-condition her for the trip. It worked! On Friday it was morning routine as usual until Emily went in the RV, then a last minute scramble and we were on the road!

The first day was only 136 miles to Poncho Villa State Park in Columbus, NM. The new windshield we had installed last year started whistling LOUD! Jack tried duck tape on the inside, but with no improvement. Also, Jack lost a dental filling Saturday morning to complicate matters.

But Day 2 was only 80 miles to El Paso, TX where we planned a shopping excursion at Camping World and a visit to Verizon Wireless for a new cell phone (paid for by Jack’s benefit program). We opted for a plain ol’ cell phone – no camera, no internet, no music – just phone! Jack bought some adhesive for the windshield, but after many applications, it wasn’t’ until the last day of our trip he resorted to Gorilla Tape on the whole upper edge of the windshield outside which finally stopped the annoying, screaming whistle. We will be visiting the glass shop this month for final repair.

The allergies started by Balmorhea State park, Day 3 but the 72 – 76 degree spring fed pool distracted our discomfort. Then at Uvalde, day 4 we spent the night at the Spanish Dagger, a private, brand new park – we were their 5th visitor! We saw dozens of Mountain Bluebirds, and many other birds, deer, cows, a pond and creek from our living room. We traveled US 285 to get there, where for 65 miles, at a speed limit of 75 (we didn’t) we only met 15 cars and 5 trucks! Along side the highway were abandoned utility poles, with wires removed and HUNDREDS of glass insulators still on the poles!

The moon, according to my new Garmin GPS was less than 90 degrees laterally from the sun. Never would have seen it without looking for it so close to the sun at noon.

On Inauguration Day we landed at Falcon State Park where we first spotted three HUGE javelinas – call them hogs! – then hundreds of water fowl along the Rio Grande. We could stay two weeks in this park! And at $14 per night, we just might, some day.

Finally, day 6 we arrived at Bentsen Grove RV Resort, which has many luxuries such as a swimming pool, its own large library, a computer room, an exercise room, and hundreds of activities to pick from. There are many year –round residents, and most of the snow-birds have been returning year after year for 4, 10, 20 years! The weather is incredibly warm in January, the grapefruit ready to pick. Trees and plants flowering, added to the beauty. The Rio Grande is only a couple miles or so away, and the Southern Hospitality oozes from the locals.

We visited with Jim and Paula the first day, and then Jim drove us into Mexico (I think it was La Grulla), Thursday, where we had a fabulous lunch in a local restaurant. Our waiter didn’t speak English, and Paula could get by in Spanish, but a patron interrupted her own lunch to come over and offer to help us decipher the menu. The people in this small town were so friendly, offering “Hola” (Hello) if we simply made eye contact. The architecture was fascinating, and the public park beautifully inviting.

Jim and Paula are very active with the bicycle club at the park, and they were the hosts at the weekly luncheon on Friday. It was a wonderful chicken, beans and rice dinner cooked by the residents of the Colonia. We were given a tour of the main building and the 3-4 year old pre-school. The Colonia is a very special place, founded and run by 5 nuns, financed by contributions, where people, mostly Mexicans, who have nothing but the desire to improve their lives, can live. Some start out in tiny trailers or single-room wood houses, and as they work, they slowly build their homes and families, paying what they can, under the protection and guidance of the church, and get good education, medical and dental care, love, and most of all, hope.

Jim has helped with some of the carpentry around the building and playground for the preschool children. Paula teaches English to the mothers who don’t speak it at all. The children attend public kindergarten and regular school in the town, learning English as they go. Both Jim and Paula work in volunteer capacity. I could go on and on about this place. It warmed my heart to visit there.

We went to a fine Italian restaurant that evening, with Jim and Paula and their friend, Lou. He was a very interesting companion, and fun to visit with. He gave Jack a couple bottles of his homemade beer, which we both found quite delicious! I don’t drink much beer, but it made me want to start brewing!

Saturday we attended a jam session at a neighboring campground where some very talented and some not-so-talented musicians performed – all very entertaining, and enjoyable, mostly country music. Jack and Paula feasted on chili dogs and iced tea.

That afternoon Paula taught me Swedish weaving. Boy, can I hardly wait to share this with my sisters and nieces! Fun, easy, pretty!

The most entertaining performance was Saturday night, when a husband-wife comedy team; “Bernie and Red”, sang, played guitar, and told very funny stories for two whole hours. Time FLEW by and we hated to see them go.

Sunday, the bicycle club had a bratwurst pot luck, where we ate, and ate, and ate. (I tried real hard to stick to a high proportion of vegetables). But I couldn’t pass up the sugar-free grapefruit pie!!!!!!! OMG was it good! I got the recipe from Paula’s friend, Sue, and am anxious to make my own.

Paula also showed me how to play the hammer Dulcimer Sunday. You have to hold the hammers very loosely, like drum sticks, but oh, what heavenly musical tones!

Monday we left the park to head, slowly home, but not until Jim graced us with beets, beet greens, carrots, sugar snap peas, tomatoes, mescaline blend greens, and dozens of ever-so-sweet grapefruit, all from his own garden and trees. Oh, we ate well on the trip home.

We visited the State parks again: Falcon, Seminole Canyons, and Balmorhea, but stayed two nights at each. We noted that on future trips we must bring our electronic language translator, and bird and flower field guides. Jack hiked 9 miles at Seminole to see the stone art, where centuries of painting and etching described the history. It was my turn to rest. Bows was crabby by now, and needed extra hugging. All the pets did very well the whole trip.

After Balmorhea, Jack went down to the local farm and bought some beef and turkey jerkies, jalapeño sausage, and the most delicious green tomato relish in the world! It reminded me of my mother’s piccalilli in taste, but was a much coarser, crisper, crunchier grind. We will go back there again! For sure!

The last night was a private park in Deming, NM. A city-style park to be sure, but clean, and comfy. Good Wifi Good Cable TV – we watched the Super Bowl, each routing for a different team. Civilization. Emily was up most of the night, apparently aware that home was close by. The dumpsters were emptied by a very noisy truck at 5:30 AM , so it was good to head home.

At home, I sat in my living room favorite chair and smiled. Then I lay in my comfortable king sized bed and smiled. It was a wonderful trip, but oh, the sweetness of home.

I apologize for the lengthy letter, but along the trip I was sometimes able to receive Emails, but almost never able to send. Once home, everything worked fine. Now, today we have emptied the RV, cleaned the refrigerator, changed the sheets, and after Jack vacuums tomorrow it will be ready for the next adventure.

Oh, and in the two and a half weeks away from home I gained weight ---- ONE POUND! And I smiled.






SETTLING IN
Mary Murdock

Hello Bob and Nancy,

This letter is long overdue, and I apologize. I never told you how much I enjoyed your visit here and how lucky I feel to be your daughter-in-law. I look forward to when we can see you again.

Thank you so very much for the Wedding gifts. The beautiful quilt looks great in our living room. Thank you also for the Birthday gift. We had a great weekend on the Northshore.

After your visit here, I found myself extremely busy and yes, a little stressed. I was very fortunate to find a good renter for my condo after trying to sell it with no luck. We're happy we decided to rent and not take a loss by having to drop the price too much in order to sell. Our renter moved in August 1st and I couldn't wait to move in with Darrel and live as a married couple...together.

It took some time getting used to my new home in St. Paul. I was not familiar with the area and my commute to work went from 5 miles to 25 miles. Boy, was that tough at first. When winter came I admit I freaked out a bit. I really don't like highway driving when the roads are snowy and icy. So now I just spend the night at my mom's when the weather is bad. It works out really well.

We took our Fall trip at the end of September. Back to the UP we ventured, but found we were too early. The leaves had just started to change and with the memories of the previous year's fall trip, we both were a little disappointed. We saw a few new sights, and spent more time relaxing. Next year, we will make sure the timing is right!

Our Holidays were busy with my family, Ricky's family, and Jason's family. It's always nice to see everyone. We missed Roy when he was here over Thanksgiving because I was horribly sick, running a temperature around 103 for days. I missed that feast I look forward to each year.

It's been a darn cold winter, so we have been spending most of our time at home. We play Scrabble, watch movies, cook yummy meals (Darrel does most of that) and last weekend we began putting together our new website. It will take some time putting together, which we have plenty of, at least until Spring comes.

I think about you two often, and hope you're doing well. Happy Belated Birthday to you Nancy! Love, Mary



Polly and Stan, 2008


JUGGLING HOUSES
Pauline Joubert

January 24: HI Nan and Bob,

We are here in New Port Richey, FL, and I'm enjoying the area in spite of some cold weather recently. It has only been in the 50s lately but will be in the 70s from this day on for at least a week. Since the mobile home was unoccupied for a whole year, it needs a lot of attention. We will take a break from work one day this coming week and go to the beach for some sun.

I started exercising at Silver Sneakers at the YMCA yesterday with Stan. The progrm runs three days a week so should be in good shape soon. Nancy, do you still exercise at work? My knees hurt so much this morning I had to get up and stretch a bit. I have arthritis in both knees and they need the exercise. We will be staying here until April, then it's back to NH to try to unload some things from the house and get ready to sell. After that, things are still up in the air. If we don't sell this one by then, we will come back here and make changes to furniture, etc.

In the meantime, we will enjoy the warmth and just keep watching the news of the northeast. My good neighbor Brian is watching the house for us and has alerted the police to put it on the "watch list".

Must go for now and get back to tasks at hand. I hope you are both well and having a good winter so far.

Love and hugs,
Polly



Trinity, Jack
and Daniel

HERE IN MINNESOTA
Rick Murdock

Dear Murdock Muse,

February 20th 2009: All is well here in Minnesota as the snow continues to linger and the sun continues to shine. We recently moved into a very spacious four bedroom house in Plymouth and we couldn’t be happier with the location, as it is in “Money Magazine’s” number one places to live in the country. And so it is! We are in a very family oriented neighborhood that is close to everything. The kids are enrolled in swimming classes and are performing very well. So far Daniel has sailed right through the first three levels of his circuit and Jack – who was skittish about swimming – (as he is with most things aquatic) has made tremendous improvement with his efforts in the water.

Trinity has zero fear of the water but was reluctant to jump to us in the water via diving platform. But since I started attending her lessons, she has become increasingly familiar with assisted jumps. Deanna got me into swimming by purchasing goggles for all the kids (to accompany our own sets) so that Daniel and Tanaya could swim underwater and collect items that I strategically placed in the mid level and deep sections of the pool. Currently I am trying to teach Tanaya how to dive headfirst and collect multiple items in a single attempt. She remains idle with the idea of jumping head first because her preferred method of jumping feet first and having to flip in the water has surprising success.

Daniel has been learning how to play the cello and also guitar. His cello lessons were off to a slow start because he didn’t much care for his first instructors’ critiquing of his posture while playing the cello, but he didn’t give up, and now he is advancing quite well. His fingers get sore from the practice but he tells me it has been getting easier now. He prefers more physical activities like football and baseball and is looking forward for the snow to melt so he can hang out with his friends and play. He was in football last fall and was the most promising player because of his speed and handling in the game, and he even won a medal for his ability as the first string quarterback!

Jack has become infatuated with computers as of late and has displayed a natural ability to navigate the web and gaming programs offered in his after school programming. He is so creative and sweet to people that most everyone in his classroom adores him. When I drop Jack and Daniel off at school each morning, the halls echo with their names as they are habitually greeted by their friends. A most rewarding observation, as I was never considered with much regard while I attended school.

Trinity has an eccentric personality, which makes her stand out from her peers, but she has been making progress with her social skills and is gaining a bit more confidence in developing friendships. Always the actress, Trinity will often entertain her peers only to get tired of the attention and isolate herself for a spell while she re-calibrates for the next revival. She enjoys listening to the Dramatics and singing “Whatcha’ See Is Whatcha’ Get” en route to her daycare each morning and is starting to learn the lyrics to the Rolling Stones classic “Fool To Cry” although she only will sing the part “Daddy you’re a fool to cry” and “whoooo” makes me wonder why” (it is so adorable to hear her sing those parts over and over with this hint of a dog howl creeping in the background of her vocal styling’s. ) Very attached to her Dad, she is.

We adopted two puppies from a rescue shelter and are working on training them, which is never fun in the winter time because they are so eager to track in whatever they can to mess the house up. But we continue to adore them regardless. So I guess I can say that I am really looking forward to the muddy rain- soaked paw prints of spring time and you will know that statement is saturated with sarcasm. So we will keep the mop close by in anticipation of it.

Deanna and I have been keeping afloat despite the trying economic times and couldn’t enjoy each other’s company more. I have always been a fan of relaxing to a good movie and such, but oddly we have been more active with other things this winter. I detest the cold, so we got a membership at the local fitness center and so far I have lost a considerable amount of weight and Deanna has been toning her body quite fantastically. We did go and see “Seven Pounds” at the theater and went and saw the new “Friday the 13th “ on Friday the thirteenth! Both movies were very well done for the genres they are in.

Speaking of Friday the thirteenth, our sixth year anniversary will fall on Friday again! For those of you that aren’t aware, Deanna and I got married on Friday the thirteenth in 2003, so this is always fun for us. Many people find it to be an unlucky day, but for us the superstition is without merit. I couldn’t be happier knowing we have proved it to be the opposite – it is, in fact, a very lucky day for us, because we never believed we would find our soul mate after the potpourri of unfortunate relationships we were in prior to finding each other.

Well, I have to get to sleep now because I just eyed the clock and discovered it is 2am and we have swim lessons with the kids at 10am. I am up way too late because Grandpa Murdock encouraged me to set up a “Facebook” page and I figured as long as I am doing that I should just go ahead and write the Muse as well.

Hope all is well with our readers nationally and internationally.

- Rick Murdock and family


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