Murdock Muse
Nov-Dec 2004, Part 3

YAY BOSTON RED SOX!
Bob Murdock

Much to the joy of most of Museland, the beloved Boston Red Sox are the World Champions of major league baseball. After seeming to be out of it, they wore the Yankees down. Then their pitching outclassed the St. Louis Cardinals, who had won the most games in the majors - and had the best manager, Tony LaRussa.

It has been a long wait for me. As a kid in Gardner, Mass. in the 1930s, I followed the Red Sox devoutly along with my neighbor pals, Harlan and Taylor Parrish. In those days, as in recent years, the Sox were perennial runners-up. But their nemesis then was Cleveland, and one time Mr. Parrish (a former player at Dartmouth) took us to Fenway Park for a double-header with the Indians. Both games were slugfests, and it was a long afternoon - but worth it, as the home team won both games.

This was before the Ted Williams era. We knew sluggers like Jimmy Foxx and Joe Cronin, and pitchers like Lefty Grove. In the 40s and 50s the Sox had some notable outfielders: Dominic DiMaggio, Jimmy Piersall, and Jackie Jensen. Dom was Joe’s youngest brother. He wore glasses, and was dubbed “the little professor.” He was a pretty good batter, and the best center fielder around. Piersall starred at bat and in the field, but had mental health problems, as noted in the movie “Fear Strikes Out.” Jensen, Boston’s Golden Boy, was in 1958 the league’s Most Valuable Player. He married Zoe Ann Olsen, who became an Olympic diver and won silver and bronze medals.

After we moved to Hubbardston in 1940, I continued my interest in the Red Sox, following them on the radio and in the Boston Globe. Unfortunately, the box scores were printed only in the morning edition, and we subscribed to the evening edition. So at age 15 I wrote a letter to the sports editor, asking if they could include the info in the evening paper. He wrote back, thanked me for the idea, and said he would arrange to have the box scores included in the evening edition. Now my Red Sox enjoyment would be complete! I needed all this information so I could chat meaningfully with 9-year-old Ralph Roman, who was a walking baseball encyclopedia.

On the radio, Sox home games were broadcast live. When the team played out of town, the announcers stayed in Boston, and described the progress of the game as it came by teletype into the studio. You could hear the clickety-clack. They did a good job of simulating a live description: "There goes a long fly ball. It may be...Yes! It's a Home Run!"

Dad enjoyed following the Red Sox, too. He devised a score sheet for recording a game, and his method was more elaborate than what most fans do at the ball game. He wrote down every ball and strike! If the ball was hit, he showed pictorially whether it was a base hit, a ground out or a fly out. I just use shortcuts like 1B, GO, FO, and HR.

Ted Williams was the last major league player to bat .400, and he hit plenty of home runs, too. When the Red Sox played out of town, he always took the train, and one time I happened to be in Boston's South Station when he came through. I was buying a Look magazine, and the clerk said to me, "Did you know Ted Williams is right over there, signing autographs?" I paid for Look and scurried over. When it was my turn, I offered my pen and the magazine. He looked at the cover, which featured a bathing beauty. "Holy smoke!" he said. "Who's she?" Then he signed his name under her, and used my pen to give autographs to other fans. I hung around until he was done, and he asked whose pen it was. "Um, I guess it's mine," I said.

So that was my conversation with the great Ted Williams, and I bring it up in any name-dropping discussion.



SOMETHING FOR ONA'S WEB PAGE
Priscilla Januskiewicz

Oct. 30: Enclosed is an attachment entitled, The Pastor's Daughter. If you want to include it on Mum's web page, you are welcome to do so.

I have a few other things to send to you, and will work on them soon.

Mum is at Joy's right now, but they will come here on Friday for lunch and Donna will bring Mum to Vermont for the holidays.

Hope all is well with you both. Were you rooting for the Red Sox?



VACATION 2004 MEMORIES
Bob Murdock

NOTES FROM OUR 2004 SUMMER VACATION

Nancy and I flew to New England for the first time at the end of June, 2004 to participate in the Howlett Family Reunion and do other visiting. Nan wrote a comprehensive trip report in the September-October Muse
(GREAT TIME IN NEW ENGLAND) but I was slow in getting my notes together (what’s new!), so I am pleased to offer them here.

Driving 450 miles or so was out of the question, since Nan would have had to do it all. But we discovered that Southwest Airways has a flight from Baltimore to Manchester, NH, so it was just a matter of renting a car in Manchester. Our friend and neighbor Colleen McKay (the Hat Lady) made our arrangements, bless her heart.

John and Cathy Howlett hosted a Howlett Family Reunion July 3 at their home in Chichester, NH. Click here to see the attendance list. Eight people from Cathy’s family were there, the same ones as last year.

John is an RN at Health South Rehab Hospital in Concord, adjacent to the Concord Hospital. He said he works from 6:30 AM to 2 PM, which gives nice afternoon hours at home, and an early bedtime. Cathy is the office manager at Prototek, a sheet metal processing company. We gather that she manages not just the office, but to some extent the management.

Lori gave us an update on her family. Michael didn’t make it this year, as his car wasn’t ready for the trip from Norwood, Mass. He’s a mental health counselor at Newton-Wellesley hospital. Lori said she is starting a new job as an RN in the geriatric-psychiatric unit at Norwood Hospital -a five minute drive! She previously worked in Quincy.

Amanda is now a high school junior. In connection with one of her classes, she won awards for video and sound editing. Alyssa, an HS freshman, gets lots of duty as a baby sitter.

Patrick, a sixth grader, loves to be outdoors. We noticed that last year, when he identified a toad for us. Kayliegh is also in sixth grade. She does well in school, and is active in Girl Scouts. Nicolas turned 4 in August, and is a very active boy. He watched with great interest his uncle Sean’s fireworks exhibition.

During the picnic, Amanda found a little snake near the grill, and casually held it up for everyone to see. “Don’t bring it here,” said all the ladies. “Just put it in the garden,” said John.

Sean entertained us all with his pyrotechnic skills. He gave a good tutorial for the younger set, who went up close to watch the fireworks. Meanwhile, I chatted with Kris, who said she had been promoted to probation and parole officer in a regional office of the NH Dept. of Corrections, and enjoys her work. Sean is working full time at Staples, and we have observed that he is knowledgeable about their products, and helpful with the customers. Tommy, now two years old, is very energetic. We saw him racing around the lawn au naturel.

Sarah had to work, so she and Gary weren’t able to attend this year.

On the 5th of July, we visited with my sister Dotty Salminen, and - you guessed it - we played a couple of games of Scrabble. We concluded that Bob, Nan, and Dotty are equally talented, and each game depends on the breaks. While we were there, two of Dotty’s daughters came by: Viki, who brought sons Casey and Scott, and Penny. Penny works part time in a liquor store in Templeton, and is applying for work in personal care. She is engaged to a truck driver whom she has known for four years. He made deliveries to The Country Hen, where she worked.

Viki, already in personal care, said she drives twice a week to Boston Children’s Hospital, near Fenway Park. She has a new Toyota Corolla. And she’s also an Avon lady.

Casey, in 6th grade, loves rollerblading. In school, he played sax in the band. Scott is a 4th grader who prefers skateboarding, and in the school band he plays the recorder.

We didn’t see Viki’s two older sons, but learned that Jake works at Home Depot, and is about to receive an associate degree in business. Shawn has been almost two years with Pepsi Cola, and has a girlfriend named Amanda Nadeau.

Teddie Doane told me on the phone that she will be driving a handicapped boy to a school in Worcester, and looks forward to it. Billy is still continuing with his fencing business (Doane Fence Me In). His work is much appreciated, so he gets repeat customers.

As for Randy and family, Dotty said that he returned to Xyplex and they were glad to have him back. Gloria works in the office of a Jewish home for the elderly, in Brighton, Mass. Chantal recently returned from a six month visit to her homeland, South Africa. She’s now attending an acting school in Boston.

Logan has a band and does local gigs. He and his girlfriend both attended “The Mount” community college. Dillon played in a regional baseball all-star game in Lunenburg, along with a Howlett (Nick Chapman) and a Charlton (Marcus Carlberg). Tucker excels in football and ice hockey.

While we were in Gardner, staying at the Super 8 Motel, we made a trip to Athol to visit my sister Lennie Schlicke. This was the third year in a row we had gone to see her at Quabbin Valley Health Care, in the Alzheimers section. Amazingly, she seemed better this year than last year! She hardly recognized us, but seemed content to sit with us and smiled a lot. Obviously, the Quabbin Valley staff takes good care of her - and we know that Lennie’s husband Bob does too. We also saw Joan (Lovewell) Freeman again, in another part of the hospital.

We didn’t have to go very far to catch up with Steve, Nancy’s brother, and Terry Howlett. On the phone they said, “Why don’t you meet us at Friendly’s Restaurant?” Well, that was thoughtful - it’s right in front of our motel! Steve told us proudly that he now has a John Deere ride-on power mower. Terry is the Bursar at MWCC (Mount Wachusett Community College).

Also at MWCC, Missi works in the Office of Lifelong Learning (see her article in this issue of the Muse), and Stephanie is a clerk in the Records office. Stephanie’s son, Mark Anthony Wiseman, almost 7, took up basketball and ice hockey this year. His dad, Marcus, coached basketball.

Gregg’s new house in Templeton is nearly finished. It’s not far from the camp.

Tim, who lives in Maryland’s Eastern Shore, reported that his house was damaged by Hurricane Isabella. But there was no damage to his laundromat business.

Denise’s son, Nick Chapman, played on the baseball all-star team. His brother Mike is also active in sports.

At the Hubbardston home of Tom (Nan’s brother) and Marcia Howlett, we learned that Keith, Tom’s son, and Maria were almost ready to move into their new house in Clinton, Mass. They have three children: Ryan, Troy, and Tessa. Keith and Maria both work at Bigelow Nurseries.

Eric Howlett, Tom’s son, is now the president of Rotary Loft in Madison, Indiana. His wife Meredith is an accomplished flutist who has played with a group that made two CD’s. They have two daughters in college. Ana is a junior at DePauw, but Lindsey chose a different college in Indiana.

Tom’s daughter Cheryl Aliquo and her husband Mark are both educators. Cheryl teaches fourth grade in St. Albans, VT, and Mark is the principal of vocational schools in Burlington. As for their children, Anthony is a high school senior. David plays piano, trumpet, and football. Heather has a new horse and loves it dearly.

Marcia’s son Eric Johnson is the executive director of Spring Brook Farm in Reading, VT. (Registered Jerseys) and the host of Farms for City Kids. (See their website at www.farmsforcitykids.org)

Granddaughter Sanghee Johnson graduated from Preston, a Catholic girl’s school in the Bronx, NY and planned to enter the Fashion Institute of NY, on lower Manhattan. She will specialize in CGA (Computer Generated Animation).



UPDATE
Christel Murdock

Sooo much has happened recently. Tiffany and I broke up and I moved into my own condo (owned) in El Cajon. I have made a ton of new friends and have a new position at work. I have now lost a total of 72 pounds with Weight Watchers, and am still dropping.... that's the summary.

The break up has been difficult, but after a month of lying in bed and crying all day, I got up and got out, and realized what wonderful friends I always had, but never really got to know. During my move, 7 different people helped me: Tony, Joshua, Cynthia, Erin, Scott, Adrienne, and Jose. I have met and LOVE my neighbor upstairs, David, and the ones across the way, Rebecca and Anne. We are already hanging out outside of the complex and having a great time!

My new position at work has to do with deviations - I will be entering deviations into the computer and helping to come up with corrective actions... I will be making the same amount of money, but will be working more regular hours, M-F, Day shift, instead of T-Thurs Swing, Friday, Extended Day to Swing, and Saturday mornings. Because of this, I will no longer be working with Tiffany, which is both a blessing and a curse... Someday I will have to let go.

And as far as Weight Watchers goes, I LOVE it! When I started losing weight the week before my birthday this year, I had no clue that I would have lost 75 pounds by Christmas. My plan is to be at less than 200 pounds by Christmas, and so far, I am on track :). I exercise, drink nothing but milk, tea, and water, and eat less and more healthfully... imagine that! I had a great support network at work, and now have gotten some of the other girls onto WW. Someone even made a comment saying I was getting more curvy... and I had no idea I wasn't curvy before, but I found an old picture of myself.. and realized I've gone from a ball to an hourglass... I cannot complain.

So, my life is full of ups and downs right now, money is incredibly tight, but I think I will survive. Sorry I haven't updated in a while.



MOM'S BARBECUE SAUCE
Don Schlicke

My sister Cindy asked about this recipe.

1/2 tsp. salt, 2 cups water, 1/4 cup brown sugar,
1/4 cup Worcestershire Sauce, 1/4 cup cider vinegar, 1 cup ketchup, 1 tsp celery seed, a few drops Tabasco if desired. (Water is added if ribs or chicken pieces are to be stewed on top of stove.) Cook until meat falls from the bone.

The recipe that I have is on a 3 X 5 card and written by one of us kids, though the handwriting is not mine. We will have to look at it this week when Sue comes up to Massachusetts. I believe the handwriting is Cindy's or Sue's. The note about the water was added by Mom and is in her handwriting. I added the note about cooking time just now.

Mom made this barbecue sauce recipe as long ago as I can remember. I expect that it, or a very similar version, may have originally come from Grandma Murdock. Maybe Bob, Gene, Dotty or Teddie remember it. I add 3/4 tsp of fresh coarsely ground black pepper but no Tabasco. I don't remember Mom ever using Tabasco in or on anything. I made this for baby back ribs yesterday. They were great. Next weekend - chicken legs! [Ed. Note: This is a family recipe that wasn't in the Murdock Muse Cookbook, so you might want to keep a copy.--NAM]



NEWS FROM WANDA SCHINDO
Barbara DiStefano

Wanda had some great news, and I told her I would pass it on to the Muse, and print her out a copy, as she doesn't have a computer.

An Ithaca group who wanted to keep alive the legend of Temochin's awesome skating talents have dedicated a skating park to him, naming it "Temochin Memorial Skate Park." Wanda and John are very pleased and touched by this tribute and Wanda wants to find out whose idea it was so she can give him a hug.

But that's not all! Their other son, Hunter, has a band named "Wet Nurse" that is successfully touring several southern states as we speak. That must mean he gave up his day job! Sounds like success, to me. But that's not all!! THE RED SOX BEAT THE YANKEES FOR THE AMERICAN LEAGUE PENNANT!!

OK, that wasn't Wanda's news, it was Art's.

My comment: I am totally surprised someone of Hunter's generation even KNOWS the term Wet Nurse!!



HELLO, BIRD LOVERS
Valerie Davidson

Even though we don't have the autumn splendor of other areas, we do have many maples aflame. This was neatly augmented by our first light rainfall this weekend, which stands out against the backdrop of our unrelentingly temperate climate here.

My favorite kind of songbird is back, which suggests -- what? -- that it is migratory? I don't know when I last heard one of these, but I know that last year those clear, treble notes never varied from a melancholy sol-fa refrain. This morning, with the early sprinkling lending a particular freshness to the early morning autumn air, our newly-arrived friend has a slightly different song. I would describe this one as mi-re mi-re mi-do. Do you know this species? It is interestingly comforting to have the sad couplet "resolved" to the major key -- and in so sweet a voice!



KUDO AND UPDATE
Nicholaus "Rickey" Murdock

Sept. 8: What a very wonderful Muse this month indeed! Sounds like you had a wonderful time in New England...I read the entire Muse this month and I really enjoyed it.

I got a chance to see Jason and he sure has changed in many ways.I admit I was a little concerned at first about how he would be,but he has really got to be a strong person inside and I have much faith that he will finish his duty in as honorable a way as he has carried on so far. I was sad to say good-bye to him for a couple more months, but all in all his has really made a difference in my, and many others' lives...So each time I am driving my car around (which is my serenity time) I have Jason to think about because I have a miniature flag adhered to my front windshield and I have it there with pride.

The boys and Ciera are doing great and I talked to Tanaya who is slowly getting more confident about herself. I am happy they are growing up to be something they and I can be proud of.

Well anyways, very good Muse this month and - really - thanks for doing this for so long and with so much thought and love for everyone and their families.

[Ed. Note: We appreciate hearing that someone is reading and enjoying the Muse. As Rickey indicates, it is a labor of love.--NAM]



CHANGES IN MY LIFE
Missi Howlett

Its been such a long time since I've had a chance to sit down and write. But although I haven't been writing, I've been keeping up by reading the Muse every chance I get.

As usual, lots of things have changed in my life...definitely for the better. I believe Mom and Dad shared with Uncle Bob and Aunt Nancy that I'm engaged. Kurt (Sargent) and his son Jamie (11) have moved in and we make a nice little Brady Bunch style family. Kurt is basically Jamie's lone parent, and my role as stepmom has taken a little time to get used to. Having two kids is definitely different from having only one! Jamie is such a sweet kid, so it isn't hard to love him. But can you guess what happens when you put two only children together? Actually I thought it was going to be a lot harder to get them to share, but they've done really well with each other. Jamie and Richie get at each other's throats now and then but I seem to recall a few brothers and sisters of mine having a couple of tiffs... *big grin*...especially you, Foster!

Kurt and I have known each other for over 15 years. We were friends long before and always got along so good. He asked me out on New Year's Eve and the rest is history. We have so much in common and everything seemed to fall into place. We both enjoy a lot of the same kind things, such as music and crime shows (Forensic Files, Cold Case Files, the System, Cops) so we never argue over the remote (that's always good in a marriage, right?) The only tv we don't agree on is sports. He is not much of a sports fan and well, let's just say I can be a little obsessive about my teams.

Kurt used to build those big International trucks in Ohio. He came back to take custody of his son. Unfortunately Kurt is fighting Scoliosis and Degenerative Disc Disease in three of his discs so heavy labor is out. He is in pain most of the time and the medical field has been no real help. However, he has an appointment at St.V's pain management clinic, so hopefully he'll be a candidate for some of the new treatments out there (keep your fingers crossed).

In the meantime, he is retraining in Computer Graphic Design for the web and is enrolled full time at MWCC. He is very artistic and once he has the right tools and knowledge, I believe he'll be very successful.

I've been promoted to Coordinator of Workforce and Community Training at MWCC. The title is actually a better reflection of the job I've been doing for some time. I schedule programs for the community (kids' programs, craft classes, personal finance, etc.) as well as professional development classes, which includes working directly with companies to set up trainings at their locations. I also teach miscellaneous Microsoft office classes for companies and for our own staff.

I was enrolled in a course for this semester, but because the college had failed to list prerequisites on the class, I was unable to finish it. But I think everything happens for a reason. I am currently researching some other colleges that may better suit my needs.

Last year I started singing at the Open Mic Nights that the students put on at the college. After hearing me sing, a woman who belongs to the Chair City Pipers (a local Barbershop style chorus) asked me to be in their yearly Variety Show. So on October 16th I performed in my first show where people actually had to pay to see me! We had 2 performances..one at 2:30 and one at 7:30. It went great and I actually got an offer by another local artist to record a cd. I'm pretty excited and I'll keep you posted if it actually happens.

Well I guess I've blabbed enough for now (that's what I get for not writing in so long.) I'd yell GO SOX, but since we're down 3-0 right now I'll yell GO PATS instead! I know I should keep the faith...but I've lived here too long...done this too many times...I can just pray for miracles.



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