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CONTENTS OF THIS ISSUE:


KIDS! (Sean Howlett) Click

53rd BIRTHDAY (Roy Murdock) Click

HOLEY SOCKS (Valerie Davidson) Click

ROME, ETC. (Becky Murdock) Click

CHIP IN EGYPT (Chip Martz) Click

HI GUYS! (Cathy Howlett) Click

M.S. TEAM WALK (Christel M. Murdock) Click

REPORT FROM OREGON (Mary Cosgrove) Click

Part 2

ERIC MURDOCK (Gene Murdock) Click

A DAY WITH RICK (Gene Murdock) Click

MUSINGS (Gene Murdock) Click

FROM RICKEY AND DEANNA AND KIDS (Rickey Murdock) Click

KEEPING THE CLUNKERS HUMMING (Valerie Davidson) Click

BRIDAL SHOP COMPETITION (Mary Reese) Click

AZ TO NH VIA TX (Margery Aukstikalnis) Click

BIRTHDAY 54 (Valerie Davidson) Click

MY NIECE AND I IN ROME (Colleen McKay) Click

THE DAYS FLY BY (Deanna Murdock) Click

Part 3

DONALD LYTLE (David Leake) Click

WINTER AGAIN (Nancy Murdock) Click

R.I.P. JOAN (LOVEWELL) FREEMAN (Nancy Murdock) Click

GONE FISHING (Gene Murdock) Click

I LOVE BASEBALL (Ian Murdock) Click

A GREAT WEEKEND (Gene Murdock) Click

BASEBALL, ETC. (Jerod Davidson) Click

NEW CHURCH (Polly Soberg) Click

THANKSGIVING 2006 (Bob Murdock) Click


Muse Editors,
Bob's 80th B-day
Photo by Beth


Nancy's quilt,
Flow of Thoughts

Gallery photo

Quilt index


Sean, 2003


KIDS!
Sean Howlett

Well it's 9pm on a Saturday night and I am watching as seconds tick by till ten. It was a busy night. Sent some kids to their rooms early, had to fill out an armload of paperwork from the fight, and who would think kids would be asking so often to get on the freakin phone. Oh wait, this isn't my home, and these aren't really my kids. These kids are the ones that the State of NH has deemed unsafe for society and now my staff and I must care for them. I'm on G unit in YDC.

This was a big change for me. I am now the new Youth Counselor III for a unit that has lost over half its staff over the last few months. Saturday nights from 2:00 on, I am the supervisor of the entire unit of @36 kids. Now, they have done everything from theft and assault and such, but they live in my cottage (fancy old school name for Unit) due to one big factor...Drugs and Alcohol. Of course this is very different from my job at Staples for the last ten years, and I actually according to the books took a pay cut, but in the real world I am doing something better for society. I am finally using my degrees and knowledge. I have a real professional job and have a dedicated staff that works under me and at times I run the whole unit. The funny thing about this is that it is because of one guy I met over ten years ago.

I met a mentor at NHTI by the name of Rod Forey (feel free to Google him if you want to). He went from State Trooper to Director of NH Juvenile Justice System. He came into Staples one day and asked me to fill in an Application for the Youth Detention Center. I said "Heck Yeah" and filled in an Application. Time went by and I wondered if it had come by his desk. As time went by he strolled back by Staples and asked why I hadn't filled out any applications yet. I told him I had, and we discovered they had fallen into the Limbo of a non-state worker applying for a position in the State of NH. As things would have it, a li'l hurricane called Katrina came by and he, Rod, got a call to be activated by the National Guard, and time would just spin its wheels till eventually a couple of weeks ago he would walk through the doors of my Staples.

He took two seconds to look at me and asked, "What are you still doing here?" I stated that I had been waiting for the state to call me about the applications I had submitted for all the part time and full time JJS positions that had opened up as time went by. He turned red and apologized for the bureaucracy known as State. He gave me the name of the director of Human Resources for NH HHS JJS and told me he was calling him and telling him to expect a call from me today. I was handed a slip of paper with a work number and a cell number to call this guy.

I called him on my lunch, and he called me at home to ask me to send him my resume. He then called back a day later to schedule a time for me to drop by and chat. We met and he told me that they still did not have a single application from the annex. He apologized and after we chatted said he wanted me to talk to a guy by the name of Dave Ball, Director of Personel for the NH Youth Detention Center. We talked and he looked over my resume and application (I had brought it in on a thumb drive) and said, "Hey, I know a guy here I think you should talk to if Forey out there has his name on you. He grabbed a guy named "Kook" who happened to be the House leader for G unit and said, "Hey, Forey wanted Sean to chat with us, and I think he may be just right for you and your Unit." Kook said OK, looked at my resume and application, and said, "Do you have time to take a walk with me?" I replied, "Sure."

We chatted, and as we talked he kept asking if there was any way I would leave Staples to come work for the State. As I thought this would be a part time gig, I was hesitant, as I needed to make a good wage to pay the bills. He then asked me if I believed in fate. I answered that Karma is the force that pushes us into what the universe wants us to do. He then went on to explain that not only did all the internal candidates for the position fail to make the grade for such a great schedule of three off and four on, but it was just that day that the position was to go public. As the Staff of the Unit had first choice to ask Administration to fast track an application, it was their choice to do this with me right there and now if I chose to take it.

I thought for a fraction of a second of that Jerk Known as Murphy and said, "Do you believe in fate or Karma? I have to do this; just lend me a phone." I called Kris to say I would need to have her get the Kids, and we needed to talk about what this change meant for the whole family, but all she said was "Go for it."

One day after I started my new job I have a small dilemma. I am a YCIII and as such for my unit on a Saturday Night I am in charge of the Whole Unit. I am responsible for my 'kids' and staff making it through the day. It's not easy, as we have to be both the Counselor and jailer; be a helping hand and respond to their wrongs with a firm hand. All this just makes this more fun and exciting. The shift ends up with a close call of a lockdown of the unit and enough disciplinary paper work to plaster a small room. All in all a good night, the House Leader tells me the next day.

Regardless, I am sold. Heck, I've bought into this so far, as I have been pulling my regular shifts and going to my Academy at the same time. The overtime will make up for the time I am missing at home, and all along it makes me a better YCIII on the unit. My shifts are 4 days on and 3 off, set Thursday to Sunday with Monday to Wednesday off. Yeah it stinks that I have to work Saturday 12-10pm and then go back 6-4 on Sunday, but hey it makes my Friday scream by. Kris fully supports me in this venture even if it makes her do all the transport for school and she doesn't get a night off till Sunday (which is moot if I am a zombie from all the time on the unit.)

Most of all, this makes me really appreciate my own kids at home. They each get a Kiss from Daddy when he gets home from his shift, even if they are asleep.


Roy,2006


53rd BIRTHDAY
Roy Murdock

The four of us celebrated my birthday by going to our favorite restaurant, Johnny Carino's! You can see about it
here. We had a great time. The food was delicious!!!!

My latest adventure is that I am on a serious weight reduction/body building program. I started in late March and am giving myself until September to see what I can do. So far I have lost 10 pounds!


Valerie, 2006


HOLEY SOCKS
Valerie Davidson


[Ed. Note: On Valerie's 54th birthday I sent her a picture of my 8th grade graduation class. Somehow the photo had acquired part of another photo when I originally scanned and printed it, so all the legs wore faded newspaper headlines. Her response is below. --NAM]

Okay, so now I have to share an anecdote on this topic. (It seems like it should have an exclamation mark, like "Holy socks!")

Back when I was in the seventh grade, I believe I got my first pair of pantyhose as a Christmas gift. Having of course had no experience with this delicate material, I managed to snag a hole in the knee as I was putting them on for the first time, which was for church of a Sunday. From this hole, there was immediately a major run, approximately 1-inch wide, up the rest of the leg. This was naturally quite disappointing, but I wasn't about to pass on this special event.

I went to my sewing box and found a needle and some white thread, and - starting at the knee - stitched the edges of the run together in a zigzag pattern. I checked in a full-length mirror, and my dress just covered it.

However, once I was seated in the pew with my friend Jeanie, the dress hitched up and the stitching became exposed. She actually gasped when she saw it. Admittedly, it looked somewhat Frankensteinian.

Hopefully, I threw them out when I got home, but I'm not altogether sure that I didn't also wear them to junior high school the following day. Of this I am quite sure, however: that was the one and only time I used white thread to repair a nylon stocking.

V.

p.s. Thanks for the photo. I don't really recall this particular photo, but I used to study your class pictures - that goes in the same group as the other nostalgia I mentioned. :-) And of course, I even have one of my own of a Hubbardston class I was in!


Coliseum


ROME, ETC.
Becky Murdock

April 17 - I heard from Tim on Friday night. He was just going into the Coliseum in Rome with his friends. He took a 9 hour train ride to get there, to tour Rome and see the Vatican. He is really seeing the sights. He was happy to get out because he has been putting in 14 hour days getting ready for his deployment, which was supposed to be in June, but has been pushed back to Sept., to Kuwait. He will go there for 13 months, and come back to Italy for a short time, then hopefully back to AZ for a while. That would be great; then I could see him anytime. It's a bit hard right now, and I miss him terribly.

April 25 - I received a call from Timothy this morning which was a pleasant surprise. He was working, but had a chance to give me a call before I went to work. He was telling me that he is going to be having dinner tomorrow night with a very prominent person, but asked me not to release the name until after it happens for security reasons. He was picked by his sergeant personally to be there for this dinner, which is quite an honor.

He also mentioned that he hopes to maybe come home for a week or so in August if all goes well.

I think I speak for all of us when I say how proud we are to have someone like Tim defending our freedom. He is such a good person, and I am proud to call him my son. I am very happy with the way our kids have turned out, they are really good human beings.

Natt is doing really well, and I get to see her all the time, which I love. Well, I hope all is well with you, and hope to see you in the near future.

Love to all, Becky.

[Ed. Note: Colleen McKay and her niece JoAnnah were visiting Rome and the Vatican at about the same time as Tim. They also went to Venice but didn't get into St. Mark's Church, because it was closing. Colleen is looking forward to taking the next niece there earlier in the day!--NAM]

[Ed. note: Anyone wishing to contact Tim with good wishes can Email him at
Timothy.Murdock1@us.army.mil . --RDM]

On the camel's back

Gallery photo


CHIP IN EGYPT
Carl "Chip" Martz

I thought The Muse would be interested in my recent Elderhostel trip to Egypt. We saw all the famous ancient sites, including King Tut's tomb and the pyramids at Giza. We also visited Cairo, Alexandria, Luxor, and Aswan. The trip included a Nile cruise, and ended at the Abu Simbel temples that were relocated to avoid the flooding caused by the Aswan High Dam. Of course, I had to get the obligatory photo of me on a camel (attached). The only hard part was the trip home, which took 20 hours from Cairo to Redlands, all in one day!


Riley
Photo by Sarah


HI GUYS!
Cathy Howlett

In spite of my gentle nagging, Johnny hasn't set finger to keyboard yet to catch you up on all things Chichester, so while he watches another episode of "Deadliest Catch," here I am - tummy full of a nice turkey dinner, laundry all caught up to begin another work week, clean sheets on the bed (note to self: clean the bathroom before bedtime tonight, and you get another piece of that white chocolate Lindt bar in the cabinet).

Of immediate importance: please spread the word to all Musers that we are looking forward to visiting with everyone here on Saturday, the 7th of July. Claudia has already RSVP'd, and Polly has been passing on the reunion date to anyone who asks her. Same time (noon), same tent (white), different appetizer (home made Chinese-style pork strips). Johnny bought a smoker a couple weeks ago, so he might even consider cooking something exotic on/in it. Regardless, he will be cooking his now legendary ribs.

Regretfully, one familiar face and tail will be missing from the crowd this year. Our beloved companion, Riley, was diagnosed with lymphoma a while ago; he had good days and not-so-good days, and over Easter weekend he let us know he was ready to say goodbye. Johnny took him to Dr. Mara's office Monday morning, and the vet agreed it was time to let our best friend go. The neighbors' cat, who used to bully him mercilessly, still sits at the top of the driveway, waiting for him to embarrass himself by barking at her from a safe distance. Sean and Kris's dog, Idie, is in the process of memorializing him by digging a series of holes throughout the two properties. She has left unfinished Riley's last hole, under the bushes outside our kitchen window.

Winter appears to be over and spring in full bloom; but with the strange weather we've been experiencing since last October, it's hard to say for certain. Thanksgiving, Christmas Day and New Years Day all were warmer than Easter Sunday. Johnny and I went for a walk on Ogunquit Beach the second Saturday in January, in our shirt sleeves. Lori and her youngsters, Kris and her boys, Sarah and myself went to York Beach last Saturday, and all except the most hearty folks there did not pause to touch toe to water. Needless to say, Tommy and Joey were among the few to dip!

Johnny has dug out the herb garden, and has made his plans to extend the raised-bed garden by one more bed. He begins working second shift tomorrow, so he will have ample time to compost, plant and nurture this year. We're hoping for a better growing season this year; last year his efforts were not rewarded, and we didn't have the abundance we've come to expect. I'm not ready to consider a correlation between his ill health last summer and the paucity of tomatoes in our freezer.

And I'm pleased that I'll be able to hoe and weed along with him. I had an accident at work last October, requiring some fancy staple, stitch and glue work by the surgeon to repair my left arm and reconsruct my shoulder. Six months of physical therapy twice a week, along with exercises every day at home, and I can do almost everything as before, except reach behind me. The next time an athlete talks about "playing through the pain" I'll have a pretty good idea of what he means.



Christel, 2006


M.S. TEAM WALK
Christel M. Murdock
April 30: I just wanted to write and tell you how things are going in my life. So, lately my life has been a bit harder than previous. Some issues with my job and home; and my ex's mother (the one I'd lived with) passed away, and I've been a bit down in the dumps.

In the last few weeks, I decided to take back control of my well-being and do my best to make my life my own again. I joined a gym, re-joined weight watchers and I've done my very best to stay positive regardless of the things that don't go the way I've planned, etc.

Today, I had a wonderful day. First, it's my partner’s and my six-month Anniversary. This is the most understanding and easygoing relationship I've been in, and despite all the losses we've had in the last six months and despite my own issues, we've stayed strong and I'm so confident that this will continue, hopefully for a lifetime.

We also participated in a much-anticipated Multiple Sclerosis Society 5k Walk. A few months ago, I put together a team, which we ended up naming "Big Love," and last night we had a pajama party for the ladies of the group. We made some t-shirts for everybody, "Team Big Love: Celebrating Diversity and the Community Spirit," and watched a TV series on DVD until we couldn't keep our eyes open.

This morning, we got up, met the rest of the group at a pre-determined spot, and walked for the many that can't walk for themselves. Seeing so many different kinds of people pulling together for one cause made my heart feel so good, especially that I got to be a part of it. There were dogs in harnesses, carried by loving "mothers" and "fathers," children acting up, children helping out, people my age, adults my mother's and her mother's age, biker dudes, knitting groups, and just every type of person you could imagine... even homeless.

Okay, so the homeless didn't exactly go on the internet and sign up a team, but probably my favorite highlight of the walk was this adorable homeless man, all in red, sitting on the short wall to the harbor at Seaport Village with a sign asking for "any help" and cheering all of the walkers on, "God Bless You for what you're doing here!" and all kinds of beautiful encouragement for everyone hoofin' for a cure. I was so moved by this man, I cried of course (I always cry) and gave him the couple of dollar bills I had in my backpack, asked him for a picture and ran to catch up with my team.

For the rest of the walk, and some of the drive home, I really thought about that little man in red. You know, bad things happen every day... some small, some not as small, but really YOU choose how to meet those things... finding you're homeless, you can sit on a park bench and watch as all the "more fortunate" people walk by, them cheerful, healthy, clean, you feeling perhaps bitter that they get to go home to the comfort of their roofs and non-transient lives... or you can enjoy the novelty of the moment and cheer them on, and knowingly, or unknowingly, touch a heck of a lot of people.

So, that's my story this time. It's nice to have something positive or meaningful (to me) to share. And I also wanted to thank you again for your donation to our walk. It helped me have this wonderful experience to share with you today. I love you two and hope things are well.

March 21: I actually had a pretty wild winter's end. I was sort of in your neck of the woods visiting a friend of mine, and the day before my birthday, I was supposed to fly home, but the beautiful weather turned to sleet/snow, so I got stuck in Philadelphia for an extra day. I had a really good time, though. I hope your spring just gets more beautiful.


Bob and Mary
Cosgrove


REPORT FROM OREGON
Mary Cosgrove

March 13: I am just now learning about outdoor cooking with irons. The people are great, and I waited at least two years after I discovered them to go to my first "gathering"..in the park, right here in Dallas, in the gazebo, with the fireplace warming us, about 3 weeks ago. I immediately learned that I needed to purchase a steel table which accepts hot coals... I was on the ground, using Walmart's metal dog dish to set coals in. Now I could use a covered patio in rainy Oregon!

Then there is "safe food handling" to study, especially if we are serving the public at an event..the leader's son happens to work for the state in the health department. He told his mom to take her watch off. I have a lot to learn, excitingly.

Re my sisters: Donna is returning to VT for a visit sometime around March 23 as far as I know. I hardly hear from Donna...she is so busy babysitting her granddaughter in IL. She goes back to VT now and then, other than the summer.

Pris is in Hawaii right now...Joy is making bears. My son Matt goes to China for 3 wks (in about 3 wks) for his employer. My daughter sold her place in Wrightwood, CA, and will rent a cabin. Between 2 jobs, hopefully she'll be able to finish her on-line studying for RN.

Found an article on the downtown Salem, OR, quilt shop. It's called Greenbaum's Quilted Forest, and it's one of the top 20 quilt shops by the editors of American Patchwork & Quilting. It, along with the other 19, will be showcased in a new book, "Best of Quilt Sampler," published by Better Homes and Gardens. Sylvia Dorney is the owner of the 107 year old "pattern for excellence" business. Go to www.quiltedforest.com

We are driving to Newport Bay early Fri., for one overnight in search of a crabber.


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