Murdock Muse
Mar-Apr 2008, Part 3





Roses for
Valentine's Day

FROM THE HEART-LAND (FEBRUARY 15)
Charles Frost

Chinese New Year Party: The party was held last Sunday evening at a local Chinese restaurant. Our teacher, Mrs. Minn, and members of the Sino-American Friends Club (SOFC) organized the affair. About 100 people attended: the international students from China, Americans learning Chinese, and faculty.

Our class in Beginning Chinese sang "Jasmine Flower" and "Clay Doll." One of the international students brought clips from Shanghai TV, including a clip of a dance by ten beautiful young women all of whom are deaf. Exquisite fan-like hand and arm motions!

Valentine's Day: I ordered some roses for Janice to be delivered to my office because she was out of town that day on a business trip. The girl who came by to deliver them had a somewhat puzzled look on her face. "Here are the roses you ordered," she said. "And these roses are for you," she added with a smile. By happy coincidence we had both taken advantage of the SOFC's Valentine's Day Special offer.

After some choice steaks that evening Pamela and Richard watched a program on Christian TV. They had many a laugh as the counselor, a real comic, told how men typically slack off the romance after they have "got the girl" and watch the sports channels as if they were still single!

Starting a Movement: Jeremy-Ruth is program and activities director at the Christian Science Benevolent Association in Brookline, MA. She enjoys her work with the elderly patients recuperating there. One of her popular innovations is "Movement," where even wheelchair-bound patients learn to perform flowing, rhythmic motions. Derek quoted her as saying, "We don't call it exercise." She leaves the BA about 2:30PM to teach her dance classes in Lowell or Melrose. Her Lowell pupils are actually getting into dance competition.

Learning the Hard Way: Truman State has a sophisticated computer program called BlackBoard that enables faculty members to make up tests in advance, administer them in the classroom or remotely at scheduled times, and have the scores calculated instantaneously. As with such sophisticated software, one must follow each of many steps carefully. My students have been very patient with my fumbles. The first time I gave one of these tests in class, they logged on but the test didn't activate because I had made the wrong selections in the procedure for making the test available.

Another time a student out sick picked up the test online at the appointed time but there were no questions attached. And then there was the time when some students got inflated scores on their tests because I didn't override the default point value for each question. I've gone to the campus guru for help with this, and I've told my students I am determined to master the darn thing!

Brrrrr: Very cold here. Warmest wishes to all. Charlie and Janice




FROM THE HEART-LAND (February 20)
Charles Frost

Baby News: Heather and Steve are expecting a baby this August! She writes, "We are thrilled and can't wait to have a summer baby to spend lots of fun birthdays up in Ogunquit [in southern Maine, and one of the best beaches in the world]."

Correction: I apologize for misstatements I made in the last issue regarding Jeremy-Ruth's work, and she has graciously set me straight. She works for the Residential Department at the Chestnut Hill Benevolent Association. Please disregard the remaining information as inaccurate.

Pressed Into Service: The local chapter of the Optimists service club puts on the oratorical contest in our community. Janice and I were having a relaxed Saturday morning when we received an urgent call for help from the club president. Several members who were slated to serve as judges and timekeepers were indisposed. So in we went to the Student Union Building on campus, Jan as a judge and myself as a timekeeper. It's inspiring to see how poised these youngsters can be.

Dispatched to China: Sunday afternoon we participated in a four-hour orientation session for two students who are to serve as English-language teaching assistants at the Shuizhai Middle School in rural Guangdong Province. One of our colleagues gave a chalk talk on techniques for teaching English as a second language (TESL). Jan provided insights and commentary from her experience in Korea, Indonesia and China. And I gave a ten-minute security briefing.

Cold here (2 degrees below zero this morning) but should warm up by the weekend.






LOVE POEMS FROM MY FAMILY
Gene Murdock

GEMS A Valentine of Love February 11, 2008 My valentine to you all is this collection of poems on love that have been written by members of my family.

1. In 1678, Anne (Dudley) Bradstreet, an eighth-great grandmother of mine, wrote the following poem:

To my Dear and Loving Husband

If ever two were one, then surely we.
If ever man were lov’d by wife, then thee;
If ever wife was happy in a man,
Compare with me ye women if you can.
I prize thy love more than whole Mines of gold,
Or all the riches that the East does hold.
My love is such that Rivers cannot quench,
Nor aught but love from thee, give recompense.
Thy love is such I can no way repay,
The heavens reward thee manifold I pray.
Then while we live, in love lets so persever,
That when we live no more, we may live ever.

2. My late mother-in-law, Ida Mae (Lindsey) Ohlson wrote this around 1975:

I wish you peace and comfort,
I wish you joy and pleasure,
I wish you friends to treasure,
But most of all, I wish you love.
I wish you time to travel,
I wish you time to work and play,
I wish you time to think and pray,
But most of all I wish you love.

3. In 1996 I wrote this one:

LOVE IS

Love is sweet, a thing of joy, when given and returned
Love is bitter, hard to swallow, when given and just spurned.
Love is rich, full of pleasure, when given from the heart.
Love is cruel, cutting deeply, when two friends have to part.
Love is contagious, flowing freely, when among others ‘tis spread.
Love is useless, a wasted emotion, when felt but left unsaid.

4. On the humorous side I cranked out this:

PUPPY LOVE?

A young lad named Larry Lewitten
By a new found friend became smitten.
But can it be puppy love,
When the friend named above,
Is really a cute little kitten?

5. One night my thirteen year old granddaughter, Lindsey Murdock, awoke with a poem running through her head, got out her journal and wrote the following:

LOVE

Love is the power to withstand all,
To hold up pride, and stand tall.
Love is a medicine that can cure the ill,
Make happy the sad, and relieve a chill.
Love brings trust, and courage to dwell,
In matters we don’t belong but soon we shall.
Love makes us proud and happy to say,
I am me and me I’ll stay.

What a wonderful world this would be if this type of love and poetry ran through all families like it does through mine.
Happy Valentine’s Day!






VACATION
Margery Aukstikalnis

Jan. 24: We are leaving Thursday afternoon to go to the RV to get the animals settled, then will travel Fri, Sat and Sun to Malibu Beach RV Park in Malibu, CA for a week. We will be visiting with Paul, doing day trips and dinners until we leave Sunday morning the 3rd of Feb. We will be home Tuesday, Wednesday or Thursday or whenever we feel like it in February.

We are not registered to vote here in the primaries, anyway, so will depend on our neighbors to carry the load. We MUST be in reach of TV reception for the 1st episode of Survivor on Thursday the 7th, however, as it is the only TV show that we adjust our schedule to watch. We will manage to catch the Superbowl on the way, even if by results, only.

We will have our cell phone and computer with us, so can be reached if needed.

Wish us well and no Santa Ana Wind problems. Happy Valentine's Day, in case we don't write right away on return!



Margery


HOME AGAIN
Margery Aukstikalnis

Feb. 5: Just to let you know, we are home safe and sound, taking only two travel days from Malibu to Douglas. Except for returning to snail's-pace dial-up internet, it's good to be home.

We had a wonderful visit with Paul and very educational and interesting day trips every day. Malibu is, as you would expect, gorgeous, but very expensive. We opted to forgo our second eat-out night and change it to take-out because of the unacceptable prices and our fatigue level. We didn't spot any celebrities, but we weren't looking. We ate at an Italian restaurant with niece Amy and had a great visit with her, as she squeezed us in while preparing for a weekend ski trip in Utah! She sure does stay busy!

Yes, Dotty, we did get some beach sand for your collection, thanks to Paul. He took a hike down the steep hill path, through the muddy tunnel under the highway and on to the beach while I fixed supper. I'll send it out in a few days, after we settle in.

I will write individually over the next few days, sharing things that I think might interest each of you specifically, and not bore the rest of you with all our events.






BLUE EYES
Claudia Lindsey

Dear Family & Friends,

Dennis took this picture of Isabeau in color then made it black & white, except to show her big blue eyes.

Isn't she gorgeous.? We can't believe that she will be 4 years old in April.

Love to all,

Doting Nana, Claudia




Krista, 2007
Gallery photo


Nick, 2007
Gallery photo


RECENT PHOTOS
Mary Reese

I thought I would send you more current photos! One photo was taken at Nick's prom in 2006. He is the one on the left, his friend Bruce is on the right. Two photos are of Krista, taken summer 2007. Feel free to crop, alter, or resize!

[Ed. note - Thanks, Mary. (Mary also sent another of Nick, which is a thumbnail at the left. So we have a thumbnail and a gallery photo for each of them. - RDM]



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